Is a person still considered a virgin if he/she engages in sex talk or sexting?

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[SueShe]

Physically speaking, yes, the person is still a virgin according to the traditional definition of being a virgin.

A virgin is someone who’s never had sex — but it’s not quite as simple as it seems. That’s because sex means different things to different people, so virginity can mean different things, too.

A lot of people think that having penis-in-vagina sex for the first time is how you lose your virginity. But this leaves lots of people and other types of sex out of the picture.

Some people haven’t had penis-in-vagina sex, but they’ve had other kinds of sex (like oral sex or anal sex) — and they may or may not see themselves as virgins. And there are lesbian, gay, bisexual or pansexual people who may never have penis-in-vagina sex at all. But they probably don't see themselves as lifelong virgins just because they haven’t had penis-in-vagina sex.

However, just talking and fantasizing about sex does not make you lose your virginity as the Western world understands it.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Have you had physical sex with another person?
Yes = No Longer A Virgin
No = Still A Virgin

For the love of all that is good in this world I hope this question is a joke...

[Twalli]

Yes. Virginity requires a penis to go inside the vagina in order to lose it.

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. What kind of a question is that? Of course she is.

[DizzyDesii]

No dick is physically penetrating her OR he's not physically penetrating anyone so yea they’d still be a virgin

[JuliaStyles]

You have to be a troll as anyone who is 37 would know the answers to this question.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Those virgins should have at least committed or been the recipient of some sort of physical sexual act (intercourse, blowjob, cunnilingus, etc.) far beyond mere sex talk or sexting.

[psychoticanimaIIover]

No. If you’ve sexted, masturbated, fantasised, had a medical examination, slipped and fallen into/onto an object, or worn underwear tight enough to show an outline, you’re not considered a virgin anymore.

Oh and if you somehow manage to make it to 30 without popping your cherry, you automatically de-virginise on your 30th birthday.

[Agape93]

Yes because no sex has occurred. Otherwise people would stop being virgins after listening to porn or reading a dirty novel.

[sheikalana]

Of course they're still a virgin duh.

[lanadelrey25]

wtf do you think?

[GeneticMistake]

Absolutely 💯

[TacosRAwesome]

Yes. No sex has occured. I wouldn't call someone a pilot if they've played on a flight simulator.

[Larson7]

Why does everybody have to mske such a big deal about sexting and porn and all that. Its just words and pictures . gosh

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, I like doing that, and I'm still a virgin.

[jahaims]

Nope you are going to hell for your sins. Repent while you can

[In_Trance]

Is a person a doctor if they talk about surgery?

[Nazgol]

Of course

[Waldoe]

yes, talk is NOT sex... Sex is sex

[Anonymous]

Yes she is

[Anonymous]

Yes.