Is foreplay a must before sex?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

It depends on how you define foreplay.

Could it be talking and making sexual innuendos or suggestive comments on the way home with your partner, grabbing her ass on the way up to the front door, then kissing and groping once inside the house while ripping each other's clothes off before urgently fucking against the wall an on every piece of furniture?

Does it always require lots of kissing, stroking and massaging each other's bodies, and then performing oral sex until she cums before it's okay to fuck her?

What about waking up in the morning spooned together with your erection pressed against her ass. Does it require a lot of foreplay before she lifts her leg and guides you in for some pre-breakfast sex?

What if her clothes and figure look hot and she deliberately wags her ass knowing that it will turn you on? Is it ever okay to bend her over a table or piece of furniture, lift her skirt, pull down her panties, and drill her?

Does a woman need to receive foreplay before she gives a BJ? I don't see how her vagina is different from her mouth in that regard. A girl with a functioning vagina knows what it is for and is willing to give it up to please her man.

I never had a girlfriend who wasn't up for a quicky. Even if they didn't have an orgasm, they loved being filled with cock and being the object of my desire. It turned them on to know that they turned me on.

Besides, women don't always orgasm during PIV, but they still enjoy it a lot.

I'm not arguing against foreplay. It is actually the most sensual and erotic way to lead up to desperate, energetic, passionate sex. And I'm not just talking about oral sex. A person's entire body has erogenous areas. And an artist can drive their partner wild with skillful lips, tongue and hands. But there isn't always time for that.

One of my girlfriends was hypersexual and orgasmic. We lived together for over a year. Even though we both worked full time we still had sex at least two or three times every day and often fucked for hours without a break.

She didn't even care that much about cunnilingus. She preferred cock. We didn't always engage in foreplay. Although she was a master at it. She enjoyed being the recipient, as well. Hell, tittie play made her orgasmic. But it wasn't a prerequisite. She mainly got her motor running and came repeatedly by being penetrated and used hard.

I understand that everyone is different. But I disagree that foreplay is a MUST before sex. That would imply that sex is reserved for special occasions.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

For the  physical  'mechanics' of it "No"... spermatozoa unites with ovum. THIS can happen willing or UN-willing Recipient.  Its Nature's 'default'~ Evolution however deigned to encourage receptivity by ancillary addictive neurological hormonal pharmacology. Resulting in a 'dumbing down' of consideration of long-term consequences... decoupling from intuitive intense sensations found to be independently concupiscently 'pleasurable'.  When so 'aroused'  evolved subconscious encoded muscular responses come into play  and even an initially non-consensual tactile stimulus trigger 'seduction'. The Asian fetish of 'Chikan' capitalizes upon this. And neurologically-evolutionary-encoded innate muscular movements respond to increase and encourage yet MORE greater stimulation.  Much to the chagrin of the prudes, these responses are nascently present even in pre-teen children found innocently pleasurably 'grinding' upon their stuffed animals or bed's pilows.  
 In the fifties, the 'verboden' childhood exploratory passtime of 'playing doctor' and the dour parental prohibitions to "Stop touching yourself" Oxitocin, Dopamine and Seratonin are released, permeating the Aroused's bloodstream.~ In its extreme, to 'orgasmic' spasmic convulsions---Much to the chagrin of the prudes, these responses are nascently present even in pre-teen children found innocently pleasurably 'grinding' upon their stuffed animals or bed's pilows.  
 In the fifties, the 'verboden' childhood exploratory passtime of 'playing doctor' and the dour parental prohibitions to "Stop touching yourself"

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Yes  🤣 If you ain't gone kiss me, bite my neck, suck these tits, smack this ass, and lemme lock ya head between these legs as i watch ya finger and tonguefck the cooch, then you can get tf on somewhere. If you ain't gone let me suck on ya lips, neck, and d! ck back to back while massaging ya body, grindin this puss up and down the shaft of ya d! ck, basically jerkin you off with both sets of lips, then you can get tf on somewhere. Think you finna drill me with some d! ck before we battle it out with some foreplay?  Nahh mf! You got another thing cummin...

Quackthulu2 · Accepted Answer

Do you stick cookies in the oven before preheating it?

AyaMya · Answer

Generally yes, even if only a little something that gets you going, like making out.

If a woman is dry and tight it is very painful for the both of you and he might not even very able to get in there 😂

MrOracle · Answer

Most of the time, yes. Foreplay is great and pleasurable and why wouldn't you want that?

Obviously there will be times when you either don't have time or you just need sex immediately, and that's fine, but that's more the exception than the rule.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Foreplay is what makes the sex good. That's what gets the juices flowing! I don't think I could have sex with a girl without tasting her wet juices first, caressing her clit with my tongue, licking her nipples lightly, sucking on her fingers, kissing her toes, and slapping her ass. Yeah, I'm a freak. I like to explore. I have never had any complaints though!

pascal_climbs · Answer

If you fully want to enjoy, yes. Foreplay will make the orgasm peak explosively

katiesmuff · Answer

Whenever possible it should be!

wingattebaby16 · Answer

duh.. if you want the woman to enjoy sex, yes. Guys only really care about their own Nut.. it is why we lie often about orgasm

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Foreplay is not legally required but highly recommended!

RobT312 · Answer

Not a must, but it makes sex better

Foxeyes · Answer

Foreplay is a must 👌

ushagomez · Answer

If it wasn’t it would be called afterplay …?

Wendysbitterapple · Answer

It definitely increases the sexual pleasure

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Yes please. 😂

ZackBan · Answer

Foreplay starts when you meet a person.  Penetration is meaningless unless you give it meaning yourself

abc3643 · Answer

Not if you're a teenager.

richardcory · Answer

Its not a "requirement" is something you usually do because its fun.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

I'd always say it is and I'm still a complete virgin lol. I feel like foreplay is just as fun as the realpart it leads up to. But that's just my thinking. Otherwise I feel like rushing seems... odd. to my mind. Even my V-card mind lol 😬