Is it bad at 21 I have kissed 60 people slept with 13 people but never had a boyfriend?

I was innocent till I got sexually assaulted at 18, and turned wild so yeah but I’ve been celibate for 18 months and only kissed 3 people in that time too
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  • I lost track of how many girls I'd kissed a long time before 60 people, its a weird statistic to remember.
    Your sex life is your business, and as long as its not affecting your life or mental well being then there is no problem. If it is though, I'd urge to to get some therapy if not already done so.

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  • There's nothing bad here. You've done what you've done and you will do what you do in the future and as long as you don't hurt yourself or other people it's nothing to really worry about. However, it does sound like you probably would benefit from some professional help.

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  • Sounds sick.. Not the fact that u don't have boyfriend, but kissed 60 people, slept with 13 people.

    • oh I’ve kissed people at parties or clubs kissed friends whilst drunk, kissed men I’ve went on dates with. That type of thing

    • and I don’t think 13 is bad I mean I have a friend who is 25 with a body count of 70 or so, another friend with a body count of 22, another friend with a body count of 25. You know?

    • You asked about our opinions. So I wrote what I think about it. If u think it's not bad... Why did u ask here? 0 logic

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  • So you got corrupted and turned into a ho, that's sad.

    • Yeah

  • Kissing people isn't necessarily A bad thing, but it is alarming it took a sexual assault to get you to become sexually active

    • I was saving it for someone special.. that’s why I held onto it till I was 18. I wanted to fall in love or at least as close to love as I could get and lose it that way, got assaulted felt worthless that I didn’t care anymore so yeah

    • I'm so sorry

  • Bad is a judgment I can't make. Someone needs to come along and make you feel loved. All that kissing an sex never does that.

    • sometimes I cry because I’ve met myself be used to much when all I ever wanted was to be loved I know these men just want fun and it doesn’t make them bad people but I feel so empty inside, like I let down that teenage girl that held onto it for so long just to let myself get used but it’s life

    • "I’ve been celibate for 18 months and only kissed 3 people in that time too". Stay the course. Kissing a few frogs won't hurt you while you "interview" good men. You will know.

  • Meh... as long as you don't have any diseases, you're still good in my eyes.

  • Is it bad at 21 I have kissed 60 people slept with 13 people but never had a boyfriend?
  • Nope not bad at all! Why would it be bad?

  • Depends on your morals , values and goals

  • Sorry for your assault. I don't judge people on their sexual history.

  • Nah, it just means you're a strong woman who doesn't need a man. 😊

  • It's not bad. Actually pretty common

  • How do you know how many you kissed odd to me. And you can sleep with anyone you want

  • God bless you dear

    • why..

  • Every woman claims she was sexually assaulted

    • Every woman is also a "survivor" and a "victim".

    • @msc545 seems when they dump you they can withdraw consent for all the times you had sex

    • Yes, that too.

  • You are way ahead of me, my first was at 21 and only had 6 and I’m more than double your age