Is it common that my boyfriend wants me to use my new toy while he watches?

I ended up getting a new toy since my friends mentioned it I told my boyfriend about it and he knows I have toys I just don’t use them tons. He asked me if he could watch me use it when he comes over this weekend. I’ve never done that in front of anyone.
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Superb Opinion

  • Using a toy on my partner is a frequent part of foreplay as it always gets her off at least once or twice, sometimes even more. Every woman is different but you know more than anyone else what to do to get yourself off, so watching you masturbate with a toy is very educatinal for a guy. We know that a girl must trust a guy before she does that, so it's very flattering. It is also very arousing so you should be ready for a pounding when he finally gets inside you.

    If you like doggy position, it's great for a girl to use a vibrator on her clit while the guy is thrusting in her pussy. Super orgasm. And if you are into anal sex, you can use a vibrator for double penetration.

    • Hmmm maybe if I like it I’ll let him use it on me. And I like anal …. I prefer plugs though honestly over actual penetration maybe because it doesn’t move. But I like using the plug while we’re having sex for double penetration.

Most Helpful Guy

  • depends from person to person but most open minded of us, it's fairly common. one basic reason is seeing her recieve sexual pleasure and us still being involved and intimate. it also shows us an extra level of trust. as well can be helpful (at least to some of the wiser among us) to better know what does and does not sexually please you. (little things like certain angles that work better or certain rythum/s)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe make a video and send it to him before the weekend. Could encourage your confidence to do in front of him when the time comes

    • That's a great answer

  • Very common.

    Go for it. You'll both have fun. It's one of the perks of being in a relationship.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yep, love that.

  • Yep - he'll enjoy it, and so will you (hopefully)

  • Watching a woman pleasure herself is a huge turn on for a guy. Not only is it sexy, it's also a way for the guy to learn how to pleasure her.

  • Maybe not common but not unreasonable.

  • Very common, pretend he isn't there. Close your eyes and do what you would do if he wasn't there.

    Toy or not, be okay doing this. It helps him to learn and watch how you normally do it when he isn't around to be better for you next time.

  • I wouldn't call it common, but, personally I like to watch my wife pleasure herself. She even uses her toy on me every once in a while.

  • sure, it can be very stimulating watching someone have a happy ending.

  • Yes, guys like to see a girl do that stuff

  • What toy is it how big is it and would you be willing to share it with me after I watch for a while

  • 100% yes! We LOVE that! Nothing hotter than seeing our girl take herself to completion. Mutual masturbation can be very hot!

  • Yep. It's pretty normal, and a lot of guys enjoy it.

  • Not unusual. Did he help pick it out or buy it for you

  • Yes I think that is awesome! He wants to watch you as you pleasure yourself and see you enjoy every moment of it. My girl told me she wants me to watch her when she gets her toy and I can't wait for it.

  • Yeah, probably lol. I would certainly like to watch!

    • (Not you. My own woman.)

  • II think so

  • It sounds sexy. You should definitely do that in front of him. He will love it.

  • My wife likes to sit on a table with her leg wide open and me soaking her pussy in warm baby oil til she can't take it anymore N she takes over. love it.

  • Sounds like a fun time.


  • Yes even I would love to watch

  • why should you need a toy, if you have him

    • Because I like toys as well and he is ok with me being into them…..

    • yikes

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