Is it normal to cover my boyfriends eyes when I'm on top?

Question

Is this normal? Should I stop doing it? The only way he can get me to go on top when having sex is if I cover his eyes with my hands or a pillow. I just dont want him looking at my body when its jiggling and bouncing. I get very insecure. He doesn't seem to mind when I do it but I also think he's just being a gentleman and letting me do what I want.

gray_sailor · Accepted Answer

We're I your boyfriend, I'd be reluctant to have sex with you at all. If you can't trust me with the sight of your naked body, then you've no business having sex with me. It's that simple.

You don't have to have sex.

You don't have to show your body.

If you do have sex, it's questionable why you'd want your body hidden.

He is your boyfriend, you trust him with your body as evidenced by the fact you are having sex. Yet you treat him as untrustworthy at the same time by keeping your body hidden.

This is s mixed message that I don't think you intend to be sending. Nevertheless, this is the message you are sending.

If he is worthy of being called your boyfriend...
If he is worthy of your trust...
If he is your sexual partner...
Then it's reasonable that you would want to share your nakedness with him.
Otherwise...
Perhaps he isn't worthy of the trust...
Perhaps you shouldn't call him your boyfriend...
Perhaps you should not be having sex...

MoonlitSonata · Accepted Answer

Don'd do that. Watching a girls boobs bounce is soo freaking hot! Watching you enjoy yourself because of his body will drive him crazy. He won't notice the "jiggling" you'll notice. He will only see his super hot girlfriend doing super hot things.

desidoll · Accepted Answer

Eh why do you do this? That is the point of going on his top. So he able to see everything! I know what you mean. You feel self-conscious when he's looking at you while you're riding him. It will turn him on more and I doubt he cares about how your body looks like when you're jiggling because he's with you means he must find you to be physically attractive.

I felt like this before. My boyfriend didn't even blink his eyes when I was on his top. So I asked him if my body is ugly lol but he told me because he was too turned on XD

Luv2BRealExotic13 · Accepted Answer

Why bother having sex anyway if you're not going to let him appreciate having a naked woman in the bed? Options: Wear a shirt while riding, turn off the lights, make the guy wear a blindfold and do other kinky tricks. Otherwise he might get bored of this and frustrated and we all know what those can potentially lead to, just sayin.

CHARismatic110 · Accepted Answer

I thought one of the main reasons that guys like girl on top was because of the visual. And you're taking that away. I understand being insecure, but if he's having sex with you then he obviously doesn't mind the jiggling parts. What exactly are you insecure about?

Stacyzee · Answer

That's very odd. Why not wear lingerie or turn off the lights? Covering eyes? That's a bit extreme. There's a sexy and subtle way to do things without making it look ridiculous.

truthbeknown · Answer

Normal, like you said you are just insecure. This will subside in time when you have more time together and the trust and confidence grows.

madhatters4 · Answer

i think you should try and stop doing it. obviously if he is with you and has sex with you he finds you sexually appealing physically so it's rather unnecessary to cover his eyes.

godfatherfan · Answer

The only point of having a woman on top is so you can look at her body going exactly that. jiggling and bouncing tits, watching our cock go in and out of her. otherwise it is just a horrible position.

JuicyBrain · Answer

It's kinda hot at first, but it gets old. I don't see why you wouldn't trust me if you are having sex with me. Also, contrary to what you might think, it's actually hot to see the boobs jiggle and bounce and if you are overweight, if it mattered to him, he wouldn't be having sex with you. I don't think it's normal (which doesn't mean it's a big issue)

Answerdude · Answer

I wouldn't use the terms "normal" or "not normal", but nobody has ever behaved that way with me. I did have a girlfriend who wouldn't take her top off with me even after the first few times we had sex (because she was ashamed of her small breasts), but after she got over that, she enjoyed being on top just fine. Most girls I've been with either seemed to enjoy it just the same as being on the bottom or even more. So let me just say you're unusual.

AndyOh · Answer

Nope, not normal, never heard of that before.
I realise you might be really self conscience, but if you are naked and on top of your guy... I think you are over thinking it. I used to love to have my gal on top so I could watch her boobs bouncing around, and it was exciting.
So you need to relax, let your guy see, he will love it, and be happy he wants to see, like the rest of us guys would.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

No it is not normal. The two of you should be comfortable in each other's presence.

Mesonfielde · Answer

I think he probably minds you covering his eyes all the time.

Ggermanus · Answer

No, it's not normal. And please do stop, for his sake. It's a super turn on to watch your girl and an opportunity for you to put on a little show, tasseling you hair, arms up or behind your head, squeezing your breasts. I digress. You just made me recall a few memorable moments.

Create your own memorable moments. Bouncing and jiggling is good, and won't be the focus if you do your little "show". He'll be done in about 3 seconds anyway

Titanic1912 · Answer

If you're having sex, he should be allowed to see your body anyway he wants to. He should have a say in it. Besides, in my opinion, it would be sexy to see a girl's boobs jiggle up and down when you're on top of him.

ShaeNielson · Answer

Most guys are really into jiggling and bouncing.

tazman2908 · Answer

he is being a gentleman a lot of girls cover guys eyes when they on top and most guys are ok with it as its what the girl wants

chrisbigman · Answer

That's a little weird to me. I didn't know girls would be insecure that way, especially if you two are together.

XoxoXxx · Answer

Quite strange.

Deadpool7699 · Answer

Trust me, he deffinitly once to see your tits bouncing up and down as you ride him... that's not gonna turn him off, thats for sure XD

Mybeachlife88 · Answer

I don't mind when a girl does this. I think of it as a game and it's kind of hott. Some girls are a little bit insecure on top, and when they are, they ride much more enthusiastically when they aren't being watched. It's fun, but I love to watch too.