Is it normal to lust for others while being in a relationship?

Basically being attracted to other people too.
Is it normal to lust for others while being in a relationship?
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No
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  • Very normal.

  • No it means you are not satisfied what you have and deep down you want better and someday in future at a weak moment you can go for it so be clear to yourself and the one u with.. donot hurt him.. you can like celebrities it's another thing but what u thinking is dangerous

  • No in my experience. I simply cannot. You can find them attractive when you see a handsome boy but lust is something different.

  • I think monogamy is a myth. It would be weird not to attracted to more than person at a time.

  • Lusting while in a relationship just means you aren’t satisfied or you are a piece of shit. It’s completely normal to find other people attractive while in a relationship, but fantasizing about other people or staring at other people is NOT OKAY, and NOT NORMAL. Guys who do that or even girls who do that are immature, and disgusting human beings

  • I don't know if it's normal or not but I can tell you that it's not a good thing.

  • Nope not normal to lust for others when were in relationships.

  • It is for me. I think it has to do with your sex drive, the higher it is, the more you'll want to do business with new people.

  • I don't think so. I've never done it.

  • Yeah of course it is. Most people can't just magically shut off the part of your brain that finds people attractive, that's just not how it works haha.

  • It's one of those things people try to pretend doesn't happen, but lets be real. We are human, and there will always be attractive humans and we will always notice them. It's called biology. Anyone who pretends otherwise probably pretends they don't poop either

  • Only if you are unsatisfied with your current partner.

  • I do have that feelings in certain occasions, especially close proximity.

  • Normal, but you can't act on it. You can look but you can't touch.

  • It’s normal to find others attractive but to fantasize about others must mean you’re with the wrong person

    • something called porn. And its perfectly natural to fantasize about others. Just don't act on it.

  • Depends if you simply think that they look attractive or lust after them sexually.

  • Admiring the view is normal. Trying to have the view is not abnormal but wrong.

  • no not really

  • Finding other people attractive? That's fine. Lusting? That's another level.

  • I go with NO. If you really feel complete with your partner, the only one you will lust is your partner.

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