In my experiences I have to say yes in my younger days I used to have a lot of married women come to me just for sex because they didn't climax with their husbands and all they wanted was just raw hardcore animal sex which was right up my alley and I was more than happy to oblige LOL
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RealMarekGuru
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I think it is abnormal if nothing he does works (oral sex, intercourse, or any other type of stimulation). Has he tried to give you orgasms or does he seem satisfied to climax himself and stop?
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Asker
+1 y
Yeah he tries
RealMarek
+1 y
Have you shown him how and explained to him how you bring yourself to orgasm, if you can do so?
HighcountryXper 3
+1 y
Almost no women can climax through PIV sex. The only dependable ways for a woman is through tongue, vibrator, or hands on clit. Since I am 67, I don’t get as hard as when I was 25. I take Viagra which takes about 30 minutes to work. Then I or my wife use the vibrator or hand, or my tongue on her clit. I bought her several vibrators. They work great for woman’s orgasms. She has from 1 to 5 orgasms in the 30 minutes. Now we are both ready for PIV with lots of silicone lube. Works great for us! Don’t be embarrassed to use a vibrator. They work great.
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Razp_SorbetYoda
+1 y
Yes very normal. Most women can't orgasm from penetration alone.
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FunkyMonkeeMaster
+1 y
Maybe you should both explore what makes you cum and then try to do that together when you fuck.
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exitsevenMaster
+1 y
It can be but not if it is all the time.
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ShedzijGaGXper 2
+1 y
Yes.. let him go down and make you orgasm with his mouth
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Asker
+1 y
Yeah.. no thanks. Not my thing
Hangry06Yoda
+1 y
I guess it happens once you get bored
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Andres77Master
+1 y
no.
have you heard about Orgasmic Meditation? Tantric massage? I think Yoni is for women, Lingham for men.
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Asker
+1 y
Yes I have. I was actually reading up on it last year
Andres77
+1 y
do u see any hope in any of these?
rienna888Yoda
+1 y
Yeah I never orgasmed with my partner unless I use vibrator
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Abhay765
+1 y
Do you use vibrator infront of him?
genericname85Master
+1 y
no. unless if you're used to masturbation a lot. then this can happen.
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CnlnglerXper 4
+1 y
I understand not having the need to have sex because of stress, or being tired or just not having time for intimacy.. But not being able to climax, to me that's just wrong.. My wife doesn't need it as much as I might but I make sure she cums. That just means she is dating a selfish spouse, someone who only cares about his own pleasure to me.. I understand for most women its not just about the sex, they need a connection, a decire, she needs to get in the mood. She might need a massage, or a candle light settings... Or there might be other issues at hand, in that case therapy might be needed..
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loveslongnailsMaster
+1 y
That would depend on a few things - do you climax by yourself? Have you climaxed with others before you were married? Have you EVER climaxed with your spouse? I need more info.
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Asker
+1 y
Yes to all of those questions
loveslongnails
+1 y
Ok, so you're not climaxing with your spouse now, and it's a recent development? How long has it been going on, and what other factors led up to it? Was there particular stress involved? I'd say it's not a "normal" thing to be happening, unless there are other significant things going on that are blocking your enjoyment. Strife, stress, worry, upset, could be reasons. Or you could also be "bored with the sex".
Yourfriend2021Explorer
+1 y
Some women have a hard time being satisfied.
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Wise4myageMaster
+1 y
Not normal and frustrating for you. Have you considered seeing a sex therapist?
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MountAverageGuru
+1 y
Does that include all sexual activities?
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Still-aliveGuru
+1 y
just introduce toys and tell him to use them on you.
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ChiPaPaGuru
+1 y
It's common with women, especially if the partner doesn't pay attention to her needs.
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Hispanic-Cool-GuyMaster
+1 y
Not normal. Either he sucks sexually stimulating you.
You're not into him anymore or you personally are having personal problems that is stopping you from enjoying sex.
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jascoGuru
+1 y
Some girls and even guys are incapable of climaxing no matter how hard they try when having sex
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13 64In my experiences I have to say yes in my younger days I used to have a lot of married women come to me just for sex because they didn't climax with their husbands and all they wanted was just raw hardcore animal sex which was right up my alley and I was more than happy to oblige LOL
I think it is abnormal if nothing he does works (oral sex, intercourse, or any other type of stimulation). Has he tried to give you orgasms or does he seem satisfied to climax himself and stop?
Yeah he tries
Have you shown him how and explained to him how you bring yourself to orgasm, if you can do so?
Almost no women can climax through PIV sex. The only dependable ways for a woman is through tongue, vibrator, or hands on clit. Since I am 67, I don’t get as hard as when I was 25. I take Viagra which takes about 30 minutes to work. Then I or my wife use the vibrator or hand, or my tongue on her clit. I bought her several vibrators. They work great for woman’s orgasms. She has from 1 to 5 orgasms in the 30 minutes. Now we are both ready for PIV with lots of silicone lube. Works great for us! Don’t be embarrassed to use a vibrator. They work great.
Yes very normal. Most women can't orgasm from penetration alone.
Maybe you should both explore what makes you cum and then try to do that together when you fuck.
It can be but not if it is all the time.
Yes.. let him go down and make you orgasm with his mouth
Yeah.. no thanks. Not my thing
I guess it happens once you get bored
no.
have you heard about Orgasmic Meditation?
Tantric massage? I think Yoni is for women, Lingham for men.
Yes I have. I was actually reading up on it last year
do u see any hope in any of these?
Yeah I never orgasmed with my partner unless I use vibrator
Do you use vibrator infront of him?
no. unless if you're used to masturbation a lot. then this can happen.
I understand not having the need to have sex because of stress, or being tired or just not having time for intimacy.. But not being able to climax, to me that's just wrong.. My wife doesn't need it as much as I might but I make sure she cums. That just means she is dating a selfish spouse, someone who only cares about his own pleasure to me.. I understand for most women its not just about the sex, they need a connection, a decire, she needs to get in the mood. She might need a massage, or a candle light settings... Or there might be other issues at hand, in that case therapy might be needed..
That would depend on a few things - do you climax by yourself? Have you climaxed with others before you were married? Have you EVER climaxed with your spouse? I need more info.
Yes to all of those questions
Ok, so you're not climaxing with your spouse now, and it's a recent development? How long has it been going on, and what other factors led up to it? Was there particular stress involved? I'd say it's not a "normal" thing to be happening, unless there are other significant things going on that are blocking your enjoyment. Strife, stress, worry, upset, could be reasons. Or you could also be "bored with the sex".
Some women have a hard time being satisfied.
Not normal and frustrating for you. Have you considered seeing a sex therapist?
Does that include all sexual activities?
just introduce toys and tell him to use them on you.
It's common with women, especially if the partner doesn't pay attention to her needs.
Not normal. Either he sucks sexually stimulating you.
You're not into him anymore or you personally are having personal problems that is stopping you from enjoying sex.
Some girls and even guys are incapable of climaxing no matter how hard they try when having sex