Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it normal to think like this?
JessieBellll Yoda
I feel men who sleep around are hot, but women who do it are disgusting and trashy. I don't know why, but I always felt like that.
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9 53Society has your mind warped
How?
I wouldn't really say it's normal but hey normal is overrated anyway you can't help what you find attractive, we all have something we find incredibly abnormal that we find attractive. Just make sure you don't say it in the wrong place or time don't want to get in trouble with others.
Why would I get into trouble?
Not legal trouble, I mean people who doesn't really like your way tf thinking remember most people isn't exactly calm they will attack sometimes I am just trying to say to not say everything out in public remember for your own good.
I was a virgin till 21 n met my mrs I was with for 16 years n loved that she was experienced.
Her mental health went down hill n she left me for silly reasons n it shattered me.
I can’t sleep with strangers n need a comfortable relationship so only slept with 2 other shielas.
Over 5 years she avoided me n She fckd around about 20 of my friends n cousins n I think a lot more than I know of.
But I don’t care.
I love hearing her tell me how someone done something different n it made her feel good.
I know she let at least 2 strangers cum in her gorgeous little fanny.
And I’m certain she had me eat her out after someone had cum in there.
Before her meltdown I never dreamed of anything more than missionary, doggy n the odd 69 (very light licks).
Now I bury my tongue in both holes n nily cum if she kisses me after that lol.
Sounds like you’ll end up with guys that’ll hurt you. To me it goes both ways and it’s an extreme turn off when guys are like that to me
I don't get hurt because I am not emotional like most w3
*women
This has been our stigma since forever. I honestly can't stand men that sleep with a lot of women.. aka ( fuc******). We are in 2021 do what you want... but a man that has sex with a lot of women is just a loser
That's just your opinion, but women will always be worse in this topic
Like being a player vs slut?
Yeah
a sluts a slut doesn't matter their genitalia. The only reason it seems like a promiscuous man is higher value is because of the deep rooted idea that if he's sowing his oats in multiple women he will have lots of offspring or the ability to do so. What people fail to realize is that he is likely the best of the bottom of the barrel at the night clubs and stuff. People who go to a night club and F a stranger after they leave are trashy no matter what gender they are. That's how you get STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
Some people might call that laziness. (Making me very hot. rofl) What exactly do you like about it? Something like more possible time for sex?
It looks hot with men
Not normal. The truth is that men AND women who sleep around are trashy, not hot.
That is an old societal belief. Women can get sex easier than most men. Men that sleep around are no better than women who sleep around
Says the guy who doesn't mind female pedophiles but hate males male pedophiles. You are a completely ridiculous and the epitome of sexism.
*male pedophiles
You are pathetic
It's a big stereotype this, that women can get sex easier than men. I would say, if this happens to a certain degree that's because modern women are taught to act as sexual objects, while many men are frightened to act as they wish. But if an average man has proposed himself to get laid, he can achieve it far more easily than any average woman, without any social stigma defining him as "slut". Off course he can be defined as a "player", but the fact of been able to change a man's habits can even seem cute to many women.
I think its normal but only because men's and women's views of sex are diffrent. If men have a lot sex he is a ladies man and must be good at sex but if a woman has a lot sex she has a slut and look down on. I think those views are not true but that's most views are.
Because women and men see sexes differently and it means a different thing to both genders
I wouldn't say that's why I have my views
I admire your honesty
This is the culture you were raised in.
Somebody programmed you to believe that way just cuz people like sex does not necessarily mean that they're trashy men women the people like sex and they can have multiple partners that's just what they like to do technically speaking it isn't anybody else's business who sleeps with who really if you want to boil it down we got way too many other things to be worried about besides worrying about who's sleeping with who unless that person is sleeping with somebody that you're sleeping with then it might be a problem
I haven’t slept around in a year👎🏻But I do t feel like women who do it are any trashier than their masculine counterparts.
You've been brainwashed that's why. Especially when it's way easier for women to get laid then men. So if this "hot" man wants to fuck you, would you fuck him back? If you did, what does that make you? Just doesn't make sense. You got to learn how to think for yourself. Instead of someone seeding ideas into your mind.
Maybe you're secretly jealous of them?
No thanks
I’ve actually run into a surprising number of younger women who feel that way. So no, not weird.
What's most disturbingly "normal" about this is your care about aligning with what others consider normal. Look at all the ladies profiles on sites like okcupid, they are all wretchedly "normal"🙄...
... And they are on that site due to living a mediocre life, because someone who has actually attractive and unique would never have to be on a site, period. Life would be throwing them too much opportunity in real time to be entertained by such vicarious pickings.
I think it's fucking hot that you are the way you are, and if you happen to be in the Los Angeles area, kindly message me about being freaks together, and finding others.
It’s normalized in many cultures