Is it normal when my boyfriend cums then he stops before I do?

Question

Sex is over after my boyfriend cums. I can sometimes can cum before him sometimes not.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

You have to look at it two different ways and around about way it can be normal because guys seem to get two aroused and they might come faster but then you have to think about it he's only thinking about himself and that's usually the most cases
and for me I learned many many years ago for to have in order to have the best sex you have to make it all about her and you have to take her there at least a couple times before you even think about coming that's for me that's what I've learned and I've carried that with me for many many years that's what I believe in and that's what I've always will believe in

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

He might be getting too excited. Before you have sex, do some foreplay. Like have him do some nipple kissing and sucking, eat you out, go down on him, but don't let him cum, have him kiss your neck, kiss his neck, things like that. That'll make the sex last longer and you both will cum really good. Always works for me!

msmissydc · Accepted Answer

He should have other ways to make you cum available. Either that or he should stimulate you before, so you can cum before him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ha! It’s how guys are. Either choose to be okay with this type of love life, or be celibate.  Easy.

MrNameless · Answer

Any self respecting cis men would make his woman cum first before he does. Be it oral sex or penetrative sex.

Quackthulu2 · Answer

That’s grounds to replace him right there.

spartan55 · Answer

Your boyfriend is a selfish ass who sucks in bed. That being said, have you discussed this issue with him?

Gingerbread_GB · Answer

Tell him there are other ways he can please you even after he cums.

strateguy632 · Answer

depends how much rubbing between 2-3 minutes is not bad. less than 2 minutes ask a doctor. longer time is better so a lady should not "squeeze" if she wanted more time.

Uenvy694u · Answer

No he should always make sure you get pleasured as well. Another reason he's only thinking about himself. Proof is him stopping when he gets his. Remember it takes 2 have sex. But 2 have great sex it takes 2 who love pleasuring each other. Not just himself.

Bricealan · Answer

He needs to eat you out to Orgasm, and then fuck.

Dargil · Answer

My house rule. She cums first, by any means necessary,  or I don't.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

It's called him being selfish.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You need a better boyfriend.

VikingWarLord · Answer

After a guy cuums he doesn't wanna think about seex again for at least another 30 minutes. Your brain instantly hates the idea of seex after cuumming

Vegasrunner · Answer

At your age yes it is very normal. You are probably one of the only girls that your boyfriend has had sex w/ therefore he's still in the stage where he's discovering his pleasure. Men typically need to have a lot of partners to learn how to be good w/ women.