You said you have given a little a few times but still aren't sure what you are supposed to do. He gives it to you, so you understand it feels good! It is important that you enjoy it too and not feel forced into something.
Right now you are giving him a little then moving on. I suggest that you think about how it feels to you when you do it. You can feel it grow, get harder, pulsate. Most girls enjoy all that and experiment a little to see what really turns him on. Let it turn you on, also. How far you go with him is up to you. You know he wants more. You will have to decide how much you enjoy and are willing to do. You may decide this is as far as you will go with it. Then he might accept that or he might feel he needs more. For a couple that really is into each other, each may have to give up some of what they want to make the relationship work, but that can also hurt the relationship. Many people have completely fulfilling lives without oral. But with it talked about so much, people want it more.
Lots of people makes a big deal about the girl swallowing. But you may not be up for that. Take it is far as you are comfortable with, and enjoy what you are doing. If it is only a short while, fine, do that and then move on. If you can do it longer, give him that enjoyment. If you can last till he cums, you can stop sucking and stroke him to finish, or let him cum in your mouth but spit it out, or swallow. Talk about it, experiment, try and see what you are good with. It should be a good experience for both, not just one.
Depends on the guy your with.
I had a girlfriend once who gave me one every night before I went to sleep.
I had another that the girl was open about saying she didn't like it.
I was actually with the second girl longer.
I prefer to cum in a vagina.
I think it's fun to spend an afternoon just on foreplay once in a while.
Spend a half hour or so on my dick and I do the same with your pussy. Some wine, nice food. Music. Dim lights. Can't do that with someone who hates having a dick in their mouth.
Try eating a banana first. A long time ago some girl I knew said that helped her with the taste of semen.
Naturally it's up to you only. I would advise you to tell your friend that you're still unsure. Maybe you should try it out and if you than still have scruples, talk with him. If he really loves you, he will probably show you his understanding.
You have the right to refuse to consent to any sexual act.
I do, encourage, though, to be open with your partner in experimenting sexually. That doesn't require obligation by any means.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!if you really want to be in a good relationship you'll give head... i remember i held out from giving head and i'd get dumped or not getting a guy to spend time with me... then i gave head things changed fast.
Blowjobs are part of sexuality. What's the problem?
As you said, he goes down on you. He licks your juices. I'm sure he worships your pussy. You should worship his cock, too. Crave it, enjoy it, lick his cock and balls, learn how to perform skillfully.
I think you need to work on the root of your inhibition.
It's OK... I'm fine with that. HOWEVER, giving head is a major plus.
Let me ask you: Do you wish men to go down on you? If so, how would you feel if your man never wanted to go down on you?
I get that I never asked or anything he just did it but I guess it is nice so I could reciprocate it’s just I’ve only given head a few times so when I do , do I have to do it till he like finished or just for a little bit I don’t really know
OK, that's a good question and I am not sure how to answer it. I will tell you of my own limited experience. I have been given a BJ a few times and NEVER had an orgasm from it. Anyway, it sounds like you don't want him to cum in your mouth. That's understandable. Believe me, I would rather NOT ejaculate into a woman's mouth because I'll want to kiss her after and the last thing I want is to taste my own wad. Don't worry about experience - everyone has a first time and you just get better. Now, what you CAN do is learn by observing him how he reacts just before he's about to cum. For instance, you can give some handjobs and, just before he cums, he will make sounds or expressions or movements which you will come to realize means that he's about to cum. Once you learn this, then, if you give him a BJ, you can sense when he's about to cum and remove your mouth just before it happens... ============== That all said, a BJ is more than just your mouth. In my next reply, I will copy and paste my standard "Good BJ" answer... (more)
A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm. Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break. And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis. Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers. Also, look into videos for: A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia) B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor). That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth. I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.
I find going down on a woman more enjoyable than getting head. But I don't think I'm in the majority.
Preferences. If you don't find it appealing, don't give head.
You'll find one who tolerates such practice missing, sooner or later.
Many men expect woman to give blowjobs, but it's ok if you don't want to give blowjobs. It's not a necessary part of intercourse, it's just way to lubricate the penis. While it is still considered a very pleasurable experience, it's not necessary for you to do it. If you don't want to then tell your boyfriend and make him understand.
My experience say he will get bj’s eather from you or someone else... which do want it to be... remember the #1 reason men go to hookers is blow jobs...#1 reason... becouse the girlfriend/wife wouldn't
If you don't want to do it then don't
It’s between you and your partner. What about it do you not like?
If you want your boyfriend to stay faithful to you then yes give him head if not he will find another girl that gives head , when couples hold back from doing things sexual to their partners they are only adding fire into a relationship and resentments
No, I have eaten pussy, and not gotten sucked off. If a guy REALLY likes to eat pussy, he doesn't really need a head job. I like eating pussy, and fucking. Having an erect penis in your mouth is a weird feeling, and a girlfriend told me she was curious about it. The first guy she sucked shot his wad in her mouth, without giving her a chance to take her mouth off, and it really spoiled her from trusting a guy enough to suck and not get a mouthful of unexpected semen. That is just fucking stupid for a guy to do that.
You don't have to do anything you don't want.
most people would like a partner who is reasonably enthusiastic about giving oral. Whether this is a mild preference to a dealbreaker depends on the person and often the rest of their sex life together.
You don't have to, not even if he goes down on you or asks you to go down on him. Nothing about sex is obligatory. I know blowjobs are seen as part of the basics when it comes to sex, but it's fine to not want to give them. Don't do anything that you don't want to.
Please never let anyone make you feel like you owe them sex or a particular sex act. It's completely fine to not like something or not feel ready for sonething and to set boundairies around that thing
I am just like you I never have and I never will give blow jobs, I just find them yucky and gross! No man is gonna talk me into it.
Of course it's okay. You're never obligated to do anything you don't want to sexually.
Make sure he doesn't do anything coercive or manipulating to try and get you to do it. That's rape.
It still works against her. He likes getting head and he also does something like that for her so it's not a good thing when she doesn't do it. That gives her minus points.
@john23232323 yes it could and she can't force him either
I see things this way I don't want a girl to do something to me that she's uncomfortable doing so if she doesn't want to give me oral sex I would be fine and still love her
What do you dislike about blowjobs?
It’s Up to you. Not us
What’s fair is to talk to him and commit to learning how to give him oral. Clearly he is willing to go down on you and I assume you feel good when he does. But like you will give him feedback and he will get better, he will give you feedback and you can get better. It’s unfair for him to expect you to be an expert if you don’t have much experience.
Bottom line is making love and sex is all about energy and being willing to give pleasure to your partner. If you refuse to give him head that’s too restrictive and he may be forced to stop giving you oral. That’s not fun for either of you. But if you tell him you want to learn and you are willing to try; that’s what he needs to hear.
It’s definitely OK to not want to but if I’m honest I don’t think I’ve ever been with a girl who didn’t want to, most girls are pretty keen to give head it’s just so normal to expect it.
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