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33 41It's rape when you aren't concenting to having sex.
You gave consent to have sex with him, therefore it's not rape. Simple really isn't it?
Perhaps next time you'll think and communicate before doing anything.
Not unless he did it deliberately. Even then you did consent to sex to start with so it would get kinda sketchy legally I imagine.
No, because you allowed him to enter you so by law its not rape. Some guys get too excited and cum witout meaning to, you can't charge someone for rape if they have an orgasm once you've allready consented to sex, thats ridiculous.
It's not rape, but if you told him not to cum in you and he did anyway though he could have pulled out and/or held it then he's a douche bag for that.
no it's not rape but it does mean that he's a shithead
He obviously couldn't control himself. But that's still not an excuse.
Uh, yeah, it sort of, kind of is. If you trip and fall and break something, is that not an excuse? I mean, YOU didn't have any control over it. Oh, are you going to say that it's a reason, and not an excuse? Because I'll accept that answer and move on lol
@M_A_X Well, it's possible.
I mean the guy could have impregnated her because of it. It's not an excuse because if he had any doubt that he couldn't pull out, then he should have used a condom. End of.
Mistakes happen, bro. You're 16 so I'm assuming that you haven't had much experience in the world yet, but just so you know, shit happens, and people don't deserve to go to jail because they slipped. Also, if she asked him not to wear a condom, then by law, if he does, that's rape, and he'd go to jail anyway. The laws are incredibly biased and wrong these days.
@M_A_X When I said "He obviously couldn't control himself", I was saying that it wasn't rape. I don't agree with the rape thing. Just that he should have worn a condom if he had any doubt that he wouldn't pull out.
Stupid nonsense you read on Guardian.
Wow really. Smh
No, he didn't force you to have sex so it isn't rape, it just isn't very nice
In Sweden it seems to be: that's what they want to pin on Julian Assange.
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hmm
no, if u gave consent to put it in your pussy, its not rape to cum in it. But its an unfortunate accident, perhaps.
It may or may not be, but if you told him not to and he does so anyway, he broke your trust. I think it's a dick move, pun not intended.
I'd like to add, with the issue of consent. She didn't consent to that sexual act or consent has been violated, rego rape.
No it's not...
rape is when you don't want the act of sex
I don't know. If I tell a girl she can't cum while she's riding my dick, and she comes with me still inside her, does that mean she raped me?
If you said "no", then yes - it is rape. But if he already "cummed" inside of you, then it's not rape because you should've told him 'no' before that. Don't wait until the last second. If you aren't ready to have sex, then don't have sex.
It's not rape but the dude has got issues. I would leave him immediately
Nope just a lack of respect