Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it really cheating if you tell them?
Jessie91331 Xper 6
You are in a relationship and almost everything is perfect, you are madly in love and love and respect and care for the person. The prob is you are not sexually in sync. Either they have a super low or super high sex drive and you are the opposite. Is it cool to see others just for sex?
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14 49If your partner consents to it, then no, it's not cheating.
If u can agree with each other then why not
It won't be cheating
If your boyfriend is cool with making the relationship open it's not cheating if you guys don't consider it cheating
You're barely past childhood. What the fuck are you doing?
And you're WAY confused about relationships, loyalty, love, and being true. You're simply not even ready for dating or commitment, so just go fuck your brains out.
I do that too... just wondering since I want to know what might happen
Your duty in dating and getting to know a partner, it to make a determination as to their worthiness, their compatibility over the long term. That includes sexual compatibility. Why in the world would you want a guy that wants sex less than you do? It makes absolutely zero sense. Sex is the glue in a romantic man-woman relationship. For without that, you're just roommates or buddies. That is not and never will be, nor can ever be, marital bliss. I guarantee it.
The only way it wouldn't be cheating is if you got your partner's permission before doing it.
If you're in a monogamous relationship and then yes it's cheating.
If you have a somewhat open relationship or talk a bout it and say if something happens either it being a kiss or sex you will be honest a bout it, otherwise it would be cheating.
If you keep it a secret, one way or another it will come out, either STD, pregnancy, someone catches you or something else but it will come out one day so it depends on what you want to do a bout it
As long as it is discussed and agreed to then its fine the biggest hurdle is not hooking up with anyone else in your social circle and being discreet so the other person is not humiliated by someone bragging or it being talked about and is public knowledge. if you can do that then you should nothave a problem and can have a perfect life. when it comes time when you want kids then it should be stopped so 100% your partners but talk about it between yourselve and make sure both sides aare able to agree. sex isn't that big of a deal really so breaking the rules of being exclusive then enjoy be discreet and if able keep same people that can keep it secret
Sounds like you might be interested in polyamory
It is not cool to have sex with multiple partners without consent of your partner
It's only cheating if it goes against the established "restrictions" in the relationship
If you are actually in love you wouldn't want to cheat
No it is not. If you are in a committed relationship you should not giving yourself to someone else. Its better to break up.
I would just friend-zon you at that point and move on.
Wtf, are you high? So you're if I steal a wallet and later tell it the person, its not stealing...
If you both agree to that arrangement, it's fine.
If you agree on it before doing so, it isn't wrong
Cheating is to betray the expectations of your partner, so in this case, no.
"You are in a relationship and almost everything is perfect, you are madly in love and love and respect and care for the person".
If this is the case than you do not have sex with other people. Full stop.
It would be breaking your wedding vows if married.
Why would you see someone else for sex if your partner had a super high sex drive?