Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes. It’s even beneficial for your sex life later on. A couple of things to keep in mind:

    - Make sure you practice good hygienics.
    - Most girls like clitoral stimulation, you’re fine if you just play with your outer parts and clitoris for the fun.
    - If you want to simulate penetration you should be sure that you’re wet and horny enough before starting doing that. It might cause discomfort in the beginning and might require some time to get used to it and like it. Advantage is that once you’re used to it and like it you’re better prepared later on for penetrative sex with a penis.
    - Make sure you use purpose made toys if you’re using them to go inside, a vibrator or dildo is made for that and OK as long as good hygiene is applied but removing broken bananas and cucumbers are a yearly reoccuring fun activity at the local ER.

  • Sexologists, as well as researchers, are of the opinion that masturbation is a completely normal process for human beings and is a healthy sexual behaviour. It probably has a bad reputation because it is an intensely private sexual behaviour, which no one discusses, even with the closest of friends.

    Is masturbation harmful to women?

    No. From a health science perspective, masturbation is not at all harmful to you. Some people think masturbation is bad for moral reasons, however, that is a personal choice.

    Masturbating daily can be normal for some women, depending on their age and sexual drive, whereas for others it can be excessive. As long masturbating does not affect your overall energy levels, and does not encroach into your daily life and activities you should be fine.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why wouldn't it be? It's actually good to find out what feels good, so that you can bring that into your sex life whenever you start having sex.
    Also, realize that you don't necessarily need to penetrate yourself. Most women tend to play with their clits

  • Definitely not. If you jerk your clitoris too much it will turn into a penis. Then you will be here like the guys asking if your penis is big enough.

    • And the downvote was one of the guys always asking penis questions. ha ha

    • Now that’s funny!

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  • Yes it's perfectly safe. Practice good hygiene (clean hands and anything that touches your vagina) and you'll be fine. You don't have to insert anything inside you if you don't want, just use your fingers on the outside can be exciting enou!!

  • It is absolutely perfectly safe, natural and normal for us to masturbate as a virgin and as non-virgin. It is when we are virgin that we need to masturbate most.

    Enjoy!

  • Nobody would be safe if I didn't masturbate during my school years. I was a virgin til I was 19, but I masturbated since I was 16or17. Never orgasmed the first bunch of times I tried masturbation, but I got the hang of it. So Yeah it's safe to masturbate before and after virginity is lost.

  • Only as long as it's an external masturbation, otherwise you might torn your hymen.

  • Yes, it's safe for a virgin to masturbate.

  • Sure, but of you want to retain "prom night tightness", best you not use a penetrating toy; just stay at your clit. Once you get the hang of it, it is all you need anyway.

  • No, they'll show up if you do

  • Yeah, it should be safe.

  • Ok. This is stupid

  • Why wouldn't it be. She isn't going to hurt herself and it gives her the chance to explore what she likes and don't like.

  • Well, virgin girls (and boys) have been doing it since the beginning of time, so yes.

  • No... I heard you'll die if you do it while being a virgin.

  • Safe from what

  • Yes do it slowly

  • Masturbate is safe

  • Yes its fine just play with your pussy on the lips start slow then go faster till you cum Enjoy

  • Yes.

  • yes it is but if you wanna stay a virgin don't use anything to penetrate, stick to the outside

    • A virgin is "a person who has never had sexual intercourse". She will remain a virgin even if she penetrates herself. In fact, it may actually be a good idea for her to get comfortable with penetration before she lets a man penetrate her for the first time

  • uhhh, is the pope catholic?