Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?

If you are OK with it, is it just because you are in a friends with benefits relationship and that's how it is suppose to be?

If you are not OK with it, is it because it makes you feel like you are being used... you're just his play thing or sex doll and he doesn't really have any serious emotional attachment for you?

What do you think about couples in these situations?

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Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
A. Yes, that is our arrangement. We just enjoy getting each other off and there is really no more to it than that
Vote A
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
B. OMG, YES! I hate it when he does that! It makes me feel like he is using me to satisfy his own fleshly desires and then when he's satisfied he suddenly has to go or be somewhere and it makes me feel like I'm being abandoned and neglected or worse
Vote B
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
C. I am one of the ODD GUYS OUT, and actually have sex with a girl like this. Once she is finished she has to go get ready to do something else and doesn't seem to need me anymore
Vote C
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
D. No, I have never had this happen, my partner makes me feel loved and adored after sex and continues to pay attention to me
Vote D
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
E. This is very common in this day and age. I don't really expect any more than that from a casual sex relationship
Vote E
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
F. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Casual Sex Plaything" survey
Vote F
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  • LTR only! You should never have sex with someone unless you plan to spend the rest of your lives together! (Preferably starting after the marriage.)

  • Yes, it as if all they wanted was the sex...

  • It's up to the couple.

  • I prefer to stay. I don't like leaving someone after sex.

  • No, not cool, I would never do that to a woman, I would stick around after sex

  • What is to be expected? I've had times where she was like "Um time to go" and others that I wanted her to stay and some just passed out afterwards.. I believe it's more of wrong time, right place than just going along.

  • Even in my casual relationships with friends with benefits nobody seems to get up and go. Most hang around for more sex which they get.

  • Men actually have a chemical reaction in the brain that makes them want to fall asleep after sex and spend the night with the girl. But this only happens if he is emotionally attached to her. If he leaves then thats very telling of where the girl and him stand.

    https://www.besthealthmag.ca/best-you/relationships/why-men-fall-asleep-after-sex/

  • Some women enjoy just the sex part.

  • I never just left afterwards when i had a friends with benefits, i usually stayed and cuddled and took a nap together.

  • I think it is kinda rude

  • It truly depends on personality, sexual interest, long day,, a lot of variables, If its consistent then find out wtf?

  • I've never had a problem with them leaving 🤷‍♂️

  • I would stay if she wants me too

  • I like to stay and cuddle with a chick

  • Rood! At least stay long enough for a ciggi and then go.

  • I meant to click D

    • Nice! :)

  • If it's causal sex, women need to stop stirring up drama about it.

  • is it wrong to expect them to stay

    is what you're really asking

  • If you’re not together, he doesn’t need to stay

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