Is liking thirst traps and following half naked girls on social media okay if you’re in a relationship?

Nowadays opening up social media is a gamble. Sometimes you get bombarded with a lot of ass jiggling, twerking and basically soft core porn on your feed or explore page, you can’t even scroll through social media in public anymore. Now a lot of guys that I know (who are in a relationship) have been caught liking and/or following these so called IG Thots.

From the female perspective, it’s just disrespectful and embarrassing to see your boyfriend or your friends’ boyfriend publicly liking, following or even commenting on these kind of posts. I’d like to hear the perspectives from the other girls and the guys (especially those in a relationship that does this). Do you think this is okay? If so, why? Genuinely curious to know as to why guys do this.

Giving a like is okay but not following
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Liking and following are both okay
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Only viewing is fine but no liking/following
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Not okay at all
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Superb Opinion

  • If honesty is disrespectful then you'll for sure have only bad relationships but that's your choice.
    Because if a guy's honest they will tell you they aren't blind and find other women attractive, there is nothing wrong with that.
    If a guys not honest he'll tell you he only finds you attractive while telling another girl that's also the only one he's see's attractive.

    If ya don't get it you will learn.

    • I understand that guys can still find other girls attractive even when in a relationship. I just find it distasteful for committed guys to be following a bunch of half naked only fans chicks on their social media when they’re already in a long term relationship.

    • It's just porn. You find disrespectful that's up to you but it's really not that deep. Only time you have to worry is if the guy is neglecting you or he's personally involved with someone, seeing some half hot naked girl on insta ain't that lol.

    • I don’t mind him watching porn bcs it’s low key and there’s no way that he can actually interact with the porn star but following/liking girls with his personal social media account seems to personal in my opinion.

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  • stop over reacting. half naked is still dressed! why do look at the half empty? if it is soft it isn't porn. the word porn means something. dance is not porn.

    a like is just a compliment so be reasonable if a lover likes n follows because just compliment. nothing else.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope that's not okay. I don't even think that's okay for single guys. There is no reason to be acting that desperate

    • True that! I can somewhat understand single guys doing it but still it’s such a turn off

    • Why not okay for single guys too? What's wrong

    • @lastlyfound waste of time and energy when they could be trying to find a real girl to date. Or just put time and energy into their work or free time activities. It's pathetic to watch thirst traps online

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  • It depends on whether she is okay with it or not

    • Are you personally okay with it/not?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Of course it’s ok get over it

  • Your first 2 sentences are hilarious. Especially coming from a woman

  • Sure it's okay but we're breaking up after.

    • 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • I say not okay at all, even when you're single.

    • In your opinion, why do you think that this is not okay at all?

    • Because it's still objectifying women, making them means of entertainment.

    • Couldn’t agree more, I appreciate you sharing your thoughts on this. Thank you!

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  • not ok at all

    • What if they’re single?

    • depends on person but personally I wouldn't be interested in a guy like that

    • Fair point, I feel the same way

  • I seriously don't like it if my boyfriend does that, but actually we all look at attractive celebs etc, but he should not openly like it or comment on it. Also I do think that if you keep your man satisfied he won't be thirsting after those.

  • Up to you

    • I personally think looking is okay but not liking/commenting/following. What about you, where would you draw the line?

  • It's fine. Your in a relationship not dead

  • That’s entirely up to you.

    • I think it’s ok as long as it doesn’t go beyond that.

    • So where would you draw the line then?

    • Sending nude pics and sexting.

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  • My sister and I are both engaged and both follow people we find attractive. Our partners know. They don't care because we aren't actually doing anything with those people.

  • How about posting thirst traps while in a relationship?

    • Definitely not okay as well

  • is twerking a dance?😅

  • No lol, unless you're a cuckold.

    • To clarify, if you start doing that while having a girlfriend, she's likely to eventually do the same and start drooling over and liking pics of guys. And you'll have to be ok with that, since you do it as well.

    • Yeah an eye for an eye basically lol

    • correct lol

  • if you don't want guys to look, then maybe don't support the women who post that shit in the first place.

  • It certainly doesn't mean he's cheating, but it probably means you can do better. If anything forget about the sexual aspect of it. Why does this guy have so much time to be on Instagram? Why is he not becoming a better man.

  • Absolutely ok