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Sexual Health Is my boyfriend selfish during sex?
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So my boyfriend wants to have sex all of the time. Like 5 times a day which I think is a bit excessive. But when we have sex it always consists of me going down on him and after we have sex immediately and then he finishes and that's it. He rarely touches me down there to get me aroused and he never goes down on me either. He only touches my breasts and that's it. The sex never changes. Is he selfish?
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11 31If u talked to him about ur needs and he still didn't bother to pleasure u... yes he would be selfish.
If he feels disgusting about it then he needs to be sex educated.
Don't become a sex slave.
Talk to him...
Based on your info I would say yes he is being selfish. He is having sex and you are being used so he can have sex. If yo uthink there is anything there it is time to have some sort of reset. If the guy is just a bone head then get rid of him.
yup, very selfish
Incredibly selfish.
Yes totally, He is using to gratify himself. Sex should be a mutual enjoyment. It may sound wrong but he comes across as a guy who uses prostitutes. He has his sex and walks away not bothering about the girl...
I would say so. I love pleasuring women. It turns me on knowing i can get them off. Afterall it usually results them pouncing on me later. 😁
yes he is, sex should be about making each other feel good, never one-sided.
Dump the selfish fucker!! You deserve to be the focal point and your pleasure should come first!! Guys can get off when the wind blows a different direction.. men need to put the women's pleasure first!!!
Yes he is. He should be eating and fucking you so you can enjoy the pleasures of cumming.
Very selfish
Its your role to give it to him or risk him finding it elsewhere. If you're not prepared to give it up dont be surprised when he goes elsewhere. If you're not satisfied talk to him about it and then if he doesn't change to please you too then dump his sorry arse.
Yup that's being selfish in the bedroom, I dont understand guys like this what's not to love about satisfying a woman lol
Lol you can try to reason with him and get him to participate more like a guy should, but sounds like he is a lost cause.
Yeah that’s selfish and I guess you guys don’t have jobs if you have sex 5 times a day
listen you need to show him that you aren't going to let him treat you like that. tell him to sit in a chair. slowly undress yourself but don't let him touch, begin to masturbate in front of him, until you've reached orgasm. then proceed to put your clothes back on and smile. tell him that's the way he is, not touching you and letting himself finish. he will definitely get the point and will go down on you.
Instead of asking us if he is selfish be proactive. Next time you can tell he wants to put it in you tell him you want it as much as he does but you want to experience him going down on you and making it last longer like in the movies he watches lol.
Sounds like it. But, do you ever say anything? You also have to let him know what you like and want. He might just assume you're ok also. But it sounds like he's selfish also.