Is porn harmful for our relationships or helpful to make us learn new tips?

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[Aaron_Stone]

1 . It's not porn it's mindset.

2. Everyone watches porn but everyone has different upbringing/perspective which results in different behavior.
for e. g normal person as well as pedophile watches porn but their thought process is different which depends on their mindset.

3. Another factor that makes women perceive porn as harmful is because of their mindset. They consider sex as something " to give to a man " instead of Game/act that just gives pleasure similar to fun games kids play only of higher magnitude.

4. Women try to separate their body and mind thinking man is only after body. but in fact if you aren't happy/in mood while having sex, Man also looses interest in it.
So it's important for women to understand that sex is a way to affection towards partner not a job for the sake of just doing it.

5. They consider it as job just to fulfill as partner instead of enjoying it. Which also allows them to think as way of controlling partner.
Which contributes to unhealthy relationship.

[Aaron_Stone]

Elaborating 3 rd point 👉 Porn is just visual stimulation which can increase sex drive. Also porn also gives various ways to explore sex. Porn is just a tool, how you use it is up to you. Similar to knife 🔪 . A tool which can be used for cutting and making delicious food also as well as killing a person.

[Dargil]

Fort me, the answer is B because that's what I look for. How things work and what they look like when they do. That's why I only view short clips with zero drama. I learned a lot about effective BJ's and fingering from certain clips that improved my game. The former, what to ask for, of course.

[Anonymous]

Both. But if you create a safe space where you dont trust each other and respect bondriece it can be a fun tool to come close to 'realize' those fantasies and spice up otherwise doll sexlife (if youd been together for many years) BUT the industy is rothen and many women are forced into the buisness. Also girls who are to young and rapes get filmed and shared on the different sides and not taken down even if the victim askes for it. Now THATS a giangt problem and you should avoid videos that says og looks like teens and rapes at the very least

[Anonymous]

It could be somewhat useful for women in terms of understanding what some men may want. But it’s pointless for men to learn from as it’s not made for women, it’s mostly degrading. And tbh I wouldn’t want to be with a man who enjoys degrading me anyway. You don’t need to watch porn to know how to fuck or make love. You just need good communication and chemistry with your partner. I mean there are a minority of good porn movies out there to inspire each other in your tastes, but beyond that the majority of it is whack.

[LoveliestLily]

The difference between girls' and guys' opinion on this doesn't surprise me, but it does worry me.

[drsatan]

As long as you aren't silly and aware porn is a fantasy and not the way the real world is, then it can be helpful in many ways.

[katiesmuff]

It is one of those things that varies with how each person relates to it.

[fit_single_mom]

I caught my ex watching it a few times

[DJB72]

It sets up unrealistic sexual expectations, not to mention feeding body image issues.

Then ask yourself, in his head is he with you or the girl he just watched?

If you think it's all you, you're deluded unless you're the girl in the film. Even if you ARE the girl, if he's not the guy then that's a problem

[LiyaArgent]

it depends the way you want to live your sexuality.
For me, it is helpful

[empty_user_name]

For males harmful for female helpful

[Caunsos]

As long as you prioritize the relationship over porn there no harm.

[oldermale]

Pork is good for ideas and inspiration in the bedroom.

[oldermale]

*Porn

[skittles2017]

It depends on how much port are you consuming together or separately. That's an elaborate subject.

[MangoB83]

Come on. It’s not to learn new tips. The girls in porn are the ones doing all the work. They’re the ones doing the seducing and teasing and then finish the guy off.

[COMMODOREII]

Depends on the couples

[red_knight]

Harmful to the insecure n jealous

[abc--123]

Helpful. I've discovered things I love from porn

[MrTaboo]

Very harmful. People just dont want to admit it, because then theyll have to give it up.

[playerr]

It depends

[mohammad1997]

Very very very harmful, after an experiment😔

[Anonymous]

It probably depends on the person/people in the relationship. But in my experience it doesn't hurt and it can help.

[Anonymous]

In my experience, harmful.
It's the reason why it finished for good with my ex boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

It has been a very good thing in general for men because it has normalized a lot of things women of the past were generally not willing to do and made women feel obligated to do them in order to be "competitive" in the sexual marketplace. All good for us guys.