Is Race Play Wrong/Disturbing?

I'm black my man is white and we do race play yes he calls me racist slurs but ik I'm not a (n*gger) so why be offended right. Everyone has a kink and a fetish why is race play crossing the lines? Is Race Play slave play wrong? I get called all kinds of things from blk people who find out my sexual interests.
Is Race Play Wrong/Disturbing?
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  • Between two consenting people, then it’s fine.

    i have friends who in a totally non sexual humorous way will refer to skin colour and call each other names.

    within role play, bdsm it can be a form of degradation.

    i don’t kink shame and I likely do worse or stuff that would have more people go ‘WTF’

    with kinks it’s pretty much anything goes as long as it’s Informed Consent, and for Degradation it’s important after care is in place,

    I would put money on this being a fairly common role play kink.

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  • No it's not wrong. I myself could see the appeal as either a dominant or submissive (I'm a switch)

    As long as the people involved are of legal age and consenting, there shouldn't be a problem. Especially if it fits everyone's kink and helps them

    Satisfying your kinks satisfy the person. I'm all for your race play. Enjoy!

    Always remember to push your boundaries.

    My inbox is open

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  • No, my boyfriend and I pretend he's a slave or prosioner or thug. I get my boyfriend who's white to wear a black penis enhancer sleave and call him the n-word during. I love it when he f*cks me like a black guy. Sometimes we Include other very large black dildos and pretend black guys are running a train on me.

  • I don't know.

    It's your bedroom and if ya both like it do what you want.

    But I think it is interesting you felt you had to ask us if it's okay.

    Makes me wonder if deep down it bothers you somehow.

    • no it doesn't bother me I think peoples views on it bother me.

    • My opinion is people can't have a view on it, if you don't tell them. I think you should never let other people inside your bedroom. Even if it is as simple as just telling them what you do. Human nature will always judge and shame a person for doing something they don't do. People can't judge you if you give them nothing to judge. If you and your man like this fetish that's all that matters.

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  • As long as you have discussed it and are comfortable with it and it only stays in the bed room and does not bleed over into other aspects of your life.

  • It's not wrong if it's done with consent. The whole point of having close intimacy with someone is being able to explore things, even taboo things.

  • BDSM can always be seen as something disturbing, even with no race play. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/RomanticizedAbuse

  • Seems no less disturbing than calling your partner Daddy😂😂
    we don’t have the same kind of racism you guys have in America so I just relate.

  • Your boyfriend is racist and you’re, weird

    • Lmaooo

    • Not he's racist 😭😭 so vanilla

    • @BlckGrl Your boyfriend calls you racist names, he’s racist. Doubt he’ll admit it since instead he can ‘pretend’ and without repercussions

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  • Mate
    Your probably the only black person in the room when that happens and if it gets you off it gets you off

    Is it a little insensitive? Sure but so are many other kinks that are considered relatively common the rape kink is the first one to come in mind

    You do you because what you do in your bed is between you and your SO

  • Why do you tell people about your sexual interests , especially something like race play? Seems like something that should stay between you and your partner.

    • I asked a question? Maino, rapper recently states he likes race play and got slot of back lash for it I don't get it

    • What makes it disturbing

    • Well slavery was a dark time in history so to just be casual about something so serious, people find that disturbing. I personally couldn't care less what you do in your private life. If you and your partner like it then whatever.

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  • No, as long as you're both okay with it

  • If two consenting adults want to do something together and it's mutual... it's no one else's business.
    As long as it's not hurting anyone else.
    Don't invite judges into your bed.

  • It's ROLEPLAY it's like saying that actors and actresses who do roles that are racist such as American HISTORY X are racists in real life.

    It's no different than the CNC / Rape Kink roleplay. just because women like to do the rape roleplay doesn't mean they wanna be raped in real life. GET A FUUCKIN CLUE.

  • As long as there's consent, i don't see the issue.

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  • Hell no! There's people that get butthurt over creativity. Nevermind em.

  • Race is 19th century pseudoscience. Skin color is not a defining factor of personality.

  • We live in a world where most things you do to eachother is fine as long as there is consent.
    Racial-play should be ok but I imagine it's viewed with disgust as it reinforce racial difference that political woke people (feel they) have tried to remove.

  • So you go around telling this stuff to randoms? I guess you get off from that too. Okay, but you can't blame people for having a reaction. What you do at home is nobody's business but your own n**.

    • Lmaoooooooooo I'm dead

    • A bitch like me would dominate you probably peg you

    • omg hahaha

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  • No it's not if they are consenting to it shouldn't matter

  • As long as your both consenting to it and it turns you on then enjoy.

  • Its not, it is a mutual role-play you both enjoy. I sometimes fantasize about having some race play. If your an interracial couple, i think it adds some spice to sex. Wouldn't want to always do this tho.

    • ofc, we don't always do it but its fun and feels different we both like it ik he's not racist and he knows im not either.

    • You have a fantastic relationship!

  • I fantasize about 3 women of other races pretending I'm their prisoner, calling me White Boy and forcing me to fuck them.

    • Interesting. Sounds fun

    • They would say "Oh White boy, you want that fucking chocolate pussy don't you!" FUCK HER HARDER!!

    • Omgg I'd call you all types of shit lol 😂

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