Is saying "the past is the past" a cop-out?
Now let me say I don't think there is anything wrong with casual sex or having lots of partners. But I am more sexually conservative and try and limit my partners. I don't have casual sex and think sex is the most intimate thing two people can do and should be reserved between 2 people who care about each other. I am against slut shaming, but I think people should have the right to make their own dating preferences.
I just feel like saying "the past is the past" is not a good response. Yes, it is the past, but I have the right to exclude you from my dating pool because of it. Girls know most guys don't like promiscuous women and I think they use this as a way to avoid consequences for past behavior.
Anyways, what do you all think? Is it a valid excuse or is it a cop out?
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