Is sexting with a stranger everyday bad?

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Electric_Dreams · Accepted Answer

I only did this as a teen, before I really got into porn.. I forgot how it works. In hindsight now I know how fucked up it is in principle.. that I only did it when I was like 13/14. But they said they were girls AND they never said or did anything suspicious or creepy.. they seemed like teen girls, and I believed it, but I never saw photos or videos or anything.. which is probably a good thing because maybe they weren't girls my age.. but they never asked me for anything so.. I dunno' it seemed legit at the time.

This was back before porn was that prevalent or accessible on the internet. Then a friend told me about [first tube site I discovered] when I was like.. 17 I think, and I was like "Dude there's a youtube for porn?" and I never looked back. Before then I would just watch 30-60 second trailers on [first pay site I ever discovered] desperately wishing I was old enough to be a member..

I dunno' though, I forgot what sexting even entails to be honest..

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I think that's up to you but for me I'm always looking for a stranger to sext with I have become good friends with a few girls for me it excitement and a challenge to mske her cum harder than she ever has. Before send me a message let's see if I can do it for you

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Of course it is bad.

Not only does one get a bad reputation but also they indicate that they set the wrong priorities in life and that they are obviously only interested in sex in life. That is a huge red flag.

To anyone, that means that they are probably an unreliable person in life and that they are also likely not able to hold a relation very long since the personality, intellect and character of a person are unimportant to them since sex is the main goal in life.

1Anon · Accepted Answer

No it’s not a bad thing but it also depends on how far you both want to take it. Sometimes it could get messy if feelings develop and one person wants to take it further than the other person.

sumreet · Answer

It is not bad, but just be careful not to send intimate pictures to him.

katiesmuff · Answer

Seems like a big waste of time to me.

ThomasTKay · Answer

As long as there is some trust and a connection of some sort. It can be fun, erotic, and relaxing.

Jamie1865 · Answer

Nope! Why would it be? If you're getting off and they are, and no ones getting hurt or stalked and everything is going like it's supposed to... why the hell not?

chris4fun · Answer

No why would you think its bad? If your doing it I take it you enjoy it? And they do it back because they are enjoying it too. Just becareful and draw a line where you plan to stop.

SphynxUK · Answer

It’s not bad, but doesn’t it get kind of boring?

Dargil · Answer

If you are in a committed relationship, yes. If not, no and if you have been sexting for a while, they aren't exactly strangers.

sheikalana · Answer

It's only bad if you get addicted to it or if that interferes with your personal life or work or other stuff you need to do throughout the day.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

why it will be.

jgirl99 · Answer

No, just be safe and dont let if interfere with daily life

dublin_sexyeyes0 · Answer

No. Its fun.

Browneye57 · Answer

Desperate. Needy. Cheap.

JC103 · Answer

I don’t think it is. I think it can be healthy

finallylettinggo · Answer

I don't see it as bad. If this is something you enjoy then do so. Life is to short to not do the things you enjoy and this doesn't hirt anyone or have the risk like physical intimacy would so just have fun. Wish i could do the same.