Married folks who can’t have sex for whatever reasons, do you allow your spouse to get it elsewhere and if not, why not?

Sex is obligatory in marriage and if I can’t perform and divorce isn’t an option then the least I can do is give my wife permission to seek fulfilment with another person as long she/they don’t mock me. Anyone disagrees?

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Superb Opinion

  • You have no clue about heaven or hell, so don't pretend you do. Your wife never lost interest in sex. She lost interest in YOU. That's not in any way a slam about you, that's just how life works. You are no longer "new". We all like new stuff. You could be the best of the best, but you're not "new".

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/EtBhKTuPjEk

    Life sucks shit. Men also lose interest, so don't take it personally.

    • Hell doesn’t exist and I’m having plenty of sex with my wife. I’m just saying if she ever can’t or won’t give it I’ll go and get it from other women

Most Helpful Girl

  • No, because both of us things it's disgusting to have sex outside of marriage. If we couldn't have normal intercourse for whatever reason, we would still do our best to satisfy each other in other ways ourselves.

    • But what if, god forbid one of you is completely unable. Is it fair on the other to go without? .

    • Yes, it is completely fair because when we signed up for marriage, we were signing up to be the only one for eachother until death do us part.

    • Also I'm going to note that I read your question wrong. We can and do have sex, I thought you were asking an "IF you couldn't have sex for whatever reason" question.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think I could, but she's too conservative for that and would rather be a nun.

    Heck, sometimes we include another woman in our activities, and I would be fine trying with a guy, but she shut that down immediately.

  • My only concern is that she's extremely happy, satisfied and content. I perform best when I'm not getting any pussy whatsoever.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I would say be safe and go for it.

    Their happiness is not important than my pride.

    • *not more important

  • sex is not obligatory in marriage...

    • Traditionally yes. Modern marriages can be for many reasons but denial of sex is grounds for divorce in a court of law

    • denial of sex... is one thing being obligated to have sex is a very different thing...

    • A marriage could be annulled if it's not consummated. This means First Time is compulsory. Subsequent sex is very much religious or tradition. Can't answer if legally required.

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  • If I couldn't deliver I would tell her have fun with my blessings. Anything else is selfish and unfair and NOT what she signed up for.

  • @tim2nice My husband allowed it

  • Wife allows me to have sex with other women when she's not in the mood.

    • She’s a good person. Look after her