Men, do you think you could realistically keep up with a woman who has a high sex drive?

Please be honest. A lot of guys feel like that would be awesome in theory.
Bearing in mind there's some girls out there:

◇ that could recover in less than an hour
◇Can have multiple orgasms and keep going
◇high stamina for long periods of time
◇keep wanting more even after you're shooting blanks

There's probably more things to consider but these are the first four from the top of my head.

I'm aware that nymphos would come under this category too but also considered to be mental disorder.

So with that being said:
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Men, do you think you could realistically keep up with a woman who has a high sex drive?
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  • It depends on what it was that she asked for. Now I'll be honest part of this involves the interest in sex and not just energy. While we joke that we are waiting for a girl to ask us and the only clear response is yes but in reality, sex a lot means less time to do other things. Sometimes I as a guy wants to watch tv or play a video game to relax and unwind. Now that could mean a nice cuddle or even sharing a bath or slower intimacy but even then, I think there is a limit to sex and intimacy. Life has other things in it. And overall, a relationship at some point should feel like brother and sister after a while. Where its more causal yet still close. The kind of relationship where you roast each other, make random bets and stick your tongues out 😂 but past that, there is also the energy part. I think this is where is good to save the high energy for the end. I'd say have slow intimacy for 75 to 80 percent of it then go full power at the end, that way you have the length, the enjoyment and pleasure as much as possible.

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  • Hi. Welcome to my life! This is me!! Haha first hand experience my fiancee has a very high sex drive. We'll have sex and then an hour or two later she wants back on the saddle. Ideally sex everyday sometimes even twice a day would be her jam. Lol she's not a nymph or anything, just loves sex, loves being connected to me in that sense, and can handle it.

    I thought I would have a pretty high sex drive but comparing myself to her haha I'd say I'm average, a lot also depends on my recovery and what my body can actually handle down there. Yes my lady is hott. 🔥 Given we had the time, I would love to do it as often her 'dream' place would be, but realistically as a guy, my 'head' needs rest or it actually hurts.

    Women get sensitive down there after they orgasm and men also get sensitive after we ejaculate.

    This is my experience but to answer your question I think it depends on both parties physiological recovery rate. I can't speak for women's recovery rate/horniness/desire. As far as mine, she outpaces me and could have it everyday. Speaking for men you'd find that generally across the board there's an average of abouut a 3 day window between their last sexual encounter and them wanting another.

    Nevertheless as a guy and most guys would agree with this, I would prefer she have a higher sex drive then me than I have a higher sex drive than her. If anything I can go down on her no big deal. But to ALWAYS have a YES, whenever he wants to, golden.

    In summary, my answer is no, yet it depends on how often she wants it. In a general sense, a woman with a very high sex drive, if she wants sex everyday, most of all men would be like, "girl I need some rest down there".

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  • I have to say most guys cannot keep up with a girl with a high sex drive.

    i had a boyfriend in 2015 that was even taking viagra, using a penis ring, and a pump, and we were having sex 3-5 times a day, but I still needed more than he could give.

    We finally had to cut back coz I think he was going to have a heart attack or stroke trying to have sex all the time. His blood pressure was really high and he saw the doctor about it. We even bought me a couple vibrators, but for me, that was not enough. I NEEDED the real thing. Sex to me is more than just a piece of plastic and I need the "smell, feel, weight, hairiness, and my man" when i have sex.

    We had a talk and he finally told me if i wanted a friends with benefits, just dont tell him. Don't come home smelling of sex, filled with another man's sperm, and anything else that would "demean" his self esteem that he was not keep me pleased enough.

    • I sure would not be able to keep up with that! But I would be more than happy to be part of a team that worked together to satisfy you!

    • This is exactly the type of high sex drive I was talking about. A good portion of these guys here are like 'yeah I can totally do it" but not thinking about what that means in real life.

    • I have this kind of a sex drive. Yes, I’m a guy, but even now in my 40’s I still want sex multiple times in a day. I’m not trying to talk a big talk. I have over the top needs and I want sex. A LOT of sex. I get it. Masterbating and toys are empty, lifeless, attempts to fill the void. They don’t work. They don’t satisfy. It sounds wonderful to have a high sex drive but in reality it sucks. I’ve yet to find a woman that could keep up. I hate being accused of the “all you want me for is sex” line. That’s simply not true. I’m as loyal as it gets. What seems like it should be a blessing feels way more like a curse. Even worse, I can’t stop thinking about it. I’ve looked multiple times, questioning if I’m a sex addict. Honestly, I’ve been this way since my first erection and masterbating session, before I knew what sex was, before I had seen porn, before I had a girlfriend. Sometimes I would masterbate 10 times a day, and feel empty. Then I had sex. It wasn’t great sex, but I found the real thing and I’ve craved it ever since. I’ve spent half a lifetime needing/wanting so much more but withholding to stay loyal. I feel like I’ going to explode with all the ongoing tension inside me. I’m a bit afraid that if I ever have a spark with the girl who has my sex drive we will break stuff getting out all out inhibitions. Oh, and thanks for giving me hope that you “high sex drive girl of awesomeness” is out there somewhere!!!

  • I'm a woman with a high sex drive and with previous experience, only 1 guy could really keep up with it. Most guys thought it was great and talked "big game" but after a while I could tell that they were exhausted. It's not bad but of course for me, it always left me wanting more or wishing I didn't want sex all the time.

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  • My sex drive is a bit above average (no surprise that it's not quite as high as it was in my teens and 20s), but it's certainly possible that a woman with a VERY high sex drive could outpace me. The one girl I've dated who comes close to that was happy to be eaten out or fingered if I couldn't fuck her enough, so it was never really a problem, but I can see how it could have been.

    There IS such a thing as "too much of a good thing."

  • from experience, I dont think most can... I think I overexhaust their limit LOL. But it amazes me when one can handle mines... pretty hot

  • There can be many ways to either maintain keep up just behind you etc. If she was a real person then she would understand what men and women go through in time and what can be done about it with that the male can routinely build a level comfortable for both. And vice versa there are women that cannot keep up with a highly sexed male. 2 sides to a coin

  • I would take that challenge but just in case, I would take that challenge only if I failed I get to keep trying until I get it right lol

  • It would be fun trying! When I was 20 I met a Danish girl who had a very high sex drive. We often went for multiple rounds of great sex. Sometimes after 4 times or so I had to just take a break for several hours

  • Even if a guy can’t continue having sex after the one time, he’s always got hands and a mouth🤷🏼‍♀️ Anyone could keep up with someone’s high sex drive, you just have to love and really want the person to keep up with them or make them feel pleased.

    • That maybe so , but you have to take in consideration how strenuous sex is as a physical activity. Even if the mouth and hands are involved a person can still get tired after a while lose stamina.

    • Eh that’s not completely true at least not for everyone.

  • As hot as it sounds to have a partner like that, especially if they're sexually dominant, I'm 99% sure that I wouldn't be able to keep up with it, because if nothing else, I'm a virgin and it's going to take me far more time to type what I'm typing, that it would for me to finish the first round.

    Even if I'm experienced, I highly doubt it and I doubt I'd want sex that many times a day, at least on most days, I feel like it'd just drain your energy levels and I don't want to feel tired all the time, but that aside, I don't think I'd be able to keep up with it anyway.

    I feel like it's one of those things that sounds better in theory than in reality, at least from my own virgin POV.

  • Because I am especially good at sexual massage, and oral pleasuring, I can ensure she continues to be brought to orgasm in between my penile recovery periodsSexual sessions through the whole night with a girl who has a high sex drive are truly special !

  • If that's what she wants then yeah.

    I'm not going to let myself be tapped out before she is.

  • My sex drive is pretty high too and I've only met a few guys that have been able to keep up with me sexually, Hope you find a guy who can match you sexually. You wanna be with someone who satisfies you in all the right places lol

  • i couldnt keep up with my ex who didn't just have a high sex drive but was infact a diagnosed sex addict... we made it work though because i had no problem with her having sex with lots of other men

  • No, a nymphomaniac would be extremely 'hard' to keep up with but it would be a helluva lot of fun trying to.

    • Well the ones I was referring to was a high sex drive which is a step under nymphomania. Like those types its a literal mental disorder when they can't function in a regular setting compulsion to have sex. But yeah it would seem fun probably for moment but then it would drain a lot of energy each day. A guy wouldn't need to go to the gym if he's with a girl like that... thats for sure lol

  • At your age I was good for at least twice a day.

  • Yes, in fact I prefer to date only women who have extremely high libidos. If she's so high driven that she needs additional men, then bring em on!

  • Yes, yes, yes. I can go for hours at a time, maybe not 5 times a day, but at least 3 times a day. And I always try to make sure she gets her cookies before I get mine.

  • So far I’ve only had one that could :/ he was a two shot.

    • That's awesome.

  • It’s something I’ve considered.

    there’s the “what could you do in a special occasion on vacation” and the answer is use drugs and go nuts.

    but the real question is day in, day out, when life is busy and you’re raising kids and dealing with work and all that.

    I think I could average 3x a day in that scenario, but I’d probably only cum the last time, to keep my interest higher. So morning before we got up, early evening and before sleep.

    if that’s enough for her on an every day basis then yes. If not, tell me the schedule you imagine and I’ll consider it lol.

    • Agreed, aside from the drugs.

  • Yup, I've been with a few women like that. It's tough, sometimes I can barely keep up, but it's always loads of fun. Some of the most fun sex I've had tbh.

  • I can't know for sure until I'm married but if my own drive is anything to go by; then yes, definitely. I'm actively wanting a wife with a high drive because of it.

  • I think so. Have have left her worn out on a soaked bed after a four hour session a couple of times. Not all the time but that is what my mouth and fingers are for.
    I have a bad habit of making her orgasm until she passes out. It goes from arousing to scary really fast.

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