My boyfriend broke my hymen but we did not have sex. Am I a virgin?

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Esplorare · Accepted Answer

You decide.
Virginity is a very personal thing for a woman. It is special for the simple fact that it's the one thing you didn't have to fight for. The one thing that will protect you and keep you out of harms way without fail at least on a certain level of heartache and attachment. Even with that said, some girls did have to fight for their virginity... and lost. :/ They had it robbed and taken with force during rape or they MOMENTARILY caved under pressure ending up in a scenario like yours where you barely had sex. Look girl, I am no virgin and I can guarantee something like that considered by a non-virgin wouldn't even be considered as "sex" lol It wouldn't even be something to talk about or really even fantasize/think about later in. Personally, I don't think you had sex. Hymens can be broken so easily especially if you were athletic. One of my friends broke hers on the monkey bars as a kid and she started bleeding during recess in front of everyone. So does that mean she lost her virginity to the monkey bars? lol No.

You are a virgin, in my opinion. You didn't even have sex. There's barely any difference between what he did and what you would experience at a gynecologist's office with a straight female.

AnnVdB · Accepted Answer

depends. Some see it as losing your virginity, just like they see using a dildo is meaning your not a virgin anymore. Others will say your only not a virgin anymore if you had full on penetrative sex.

doesn't really matter. Actually you can feel like a virgin for a while, even loose some blood. I had some blood drops first 3 times, and it kinda always hurts abit in the beginning until he pushes in and then its great from there :) He had a big girth so thats why.
So for me, the beginning always feels like I am still a virgin XD Good things its only in the beginning;

Anyway im starting to rant again...

Hippieswithchains · Accepted Answer

How did he break it? Are you sure he broke it? If you've ever used a tampon you wouldn't have it anymore. If you havnt had sex than your a virgin, period. If you consider fingering or whatever you were doing to be a form of sex than no your not a virgin.

HowRUbBuddy · Accepted Answer

he put his penis in your vagina and your hymen broke... i am not even , you shouldn't be allowed to have sex if you're like this , seriously the defention of sex is " boy puts dick in girls vagina... mission accomplished " you are no longer a virging congratufuckinglations you are officialy not a virgin.

MadeInAmerica · Accepted Answer

Nope. Not anymore.

XRabbitHeartX · Answer

Yeah of course. Women can break their hymens through many activities that aren't even sexual. You lose your virginity when you have intercourse the first time.

Realfire22 · Answer

Once your hymen is broken, technically you're not a virgin.  His tip was inside u? Oh honey no, no ur no longer a virgin. U just have to face the facts.

WhatTheHellAmy · Answer

Not anymore...

anothergirl23 · Answer

your a virgin until you have sex, hymens can break without having sex. hymen can break from just going running. don't worry.

DodgersGM · Answer

The vast majority of people would consider that as losing your virginity, yeah. More important is what you think about it, though.

RexCatholicissimus · Answer

So that's the story you're telling him?

TyraMayes · Answer

If he did not insert his penis your ARE still a virgin my hymen popped when I was young because of this thing I was playing on at the park it was like the horsey thing but that's a long story... But yes if there wasn't a penis inserted your still a virgin