My boyfriend cums then stops before I do so Is this normal?

After my boyfriend cums he stops and sex is over. I sometimes can cum before him sometimes not. Is this normal that girls don't cum during sex?
My boyfriend cums then stops before I do so Is this normal?
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  • Yes it is normal. You have a selfish partner. First try to cum before he cums like get fingered by him first.

  • No, he needs to let you cum first and not be selfish.

  • when a man cums he loses his erection, it's not a choice, its just what happens... you can finish your own orgasm and let him watch

  • He can't last little longer? So you can cum too? I am not sure if I can call it normal. Have you ever heard of respectful 6 minutes or 400 strokes minimum? He must help you get off. Oral. Figuring, how ever it works for you.

    • Ladies first applies in bed room too.

  • It takes longer for a girl to cum.

    More foreplay should help.

    If I cum before she does I give her more oral.

    Most guys get soft after they cum. So your boyfriend probably "stops" because he is not erect.

  • No, it is not normal at all your boyfriend is kind of a dickhead

  • Selfish, just before the volcano is about to erupt, you should pull away and say oh that was great how was it for u darling

  • No its very selfish of him

  • that's not fair to not to give pleasure to your partner just taking pleasure isn't fair...

    • True so I know what you mean so do you cum then stop with your girlfriend?

    • no i make sure she cum first and then me and if i cum first, i dont leave her and somehow make her cum also

  • Nope, he is inconsiderate.
    No guy should leave his girl wanting.

  • It is normal but he has to learn to control it better... you can prolly go 2 or 3 times for his 1 or 2 .

  • Im not sure.
    because girls cumming is not much visible like guys.

    • True so I know what you mean so do you cum then stop with your girlfriend?

    • after Cumming penis becomes so sensitive it unable thrust further.

  • If that happens maybe you should ask him to do foreplay first? I don’t let my boyfriend cum until I’m ready.

  • Yes you have to tell him he has to take care of you or no more sex.

  • Ya I am guilty of this but my girlfriend is fine with it. I go til I cum then finished and sometimes she cums but hardly erer.

  • Do you communicate effectively to him?

  • it's normal but if you want to keep up with him you should ask him to eat your pussy in between or change position to something that has more effect on you rather than on him.
    choose a position that touches your G-spot tell him to play with your boobs.
    you can also touch your clit to make your self cum faster.