My boyfriend goes down on me before he f***s me but he never does it for long enough for me to c*me?

So I end up never actually getting my orgasm OR I have to do it myself while he is f***ing me, which is so unfulfilling and frankly, I may as well just masturbate on my own. 🤔

I’ve asked him to do it for a little longer but he said, just touch yourself when I’m inside you and then we’ll both come together.

is this normal? Do women mostly have to give themselves their own orgasm in sex? I suppose men technically give themselves their own orgasm too so maybe it’s fair I don't know.

oh and it usually takes around 10 minutes for me to actually c*me, so is that too long and that’s why he won’t do it?

Thanks
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  • 10min... na he cud do it... something till u come... or finish sexing u till u come... ...

  • I'd do it as long as she wants

  • No way he is just using as somewhere to dump his load.
    He is an ignorant pig who doesn't care if you come or not.
    Especially when you have told him about it. 👎

  • its not common though.
    he perhaps wants to tease you and likes it when you craving for more.

  • He is so lucky

  • Well if you cum from oral then you won’t cum so easy during intercourse , you also might take too long if you don’t help so it is not unusual

  • Yes its normal, and yes its fair. And yes 10 mins are too long. You should get used to it and get over it. My girlfriend did and now our sex life is awsome.