My boyfriend got an erection from another female and I'm not sure how to feel?

[Anonymous]

We were at a concert and there were a ton of beautiful women. I understand how guys work but as a woman, I can't help but feel somewhat like betrayed. Sounds crazy. I know. Regardless, she was wasted and trying to make her boyfriend jealous so she decided to dance up on all the guys in a row. There's not much space in the seating. I'm not the jealous type but when I looked down, he was covering himself after she had danced on him. I asked him why had had not said anything even if it were for a few brief seconds and he said he didn't see the harm, that he knew she was just acting that way to make her boyfriend jealous and it wasn't like she was actually coming on to him. However it really bothers for some reason that another girl gave him a boner and he decided that that it was no big deal. As a girl, I would have moved immediately if a guy were dancing on me. Am I being irrational?

[Anonymous]

Yes I kind of think you were. I’d get an erection just from my girlfriend rubbing my stomach vigorously just cause of the motion that shakes my cock as well. When you said the other dude said “woah woah” did he stop her? You can’t control what he thinks. Trust me I don’t go around looking for hot women every minute of everyday. Sometimes getting a binder just happens. I don’t k ow how to make you feel at ease about it.