My boyfriend have said these things, is this concerning?

[Anonymous]

When he went to Florida he texted me “ Naked babes everywhere tanning their tits”

He watches porn

When prom happened this girl put her boobs in my boyfriend friends face, and he brought it up at least 3 times on how happy his friend was.

When went to a party and he kept talking about one of my old best friends and how bad he felt that this guy she is trying to get with doesn’t like her and is talking bad about her. We were cuddling when be just randomly mentioned how bad he felt and then saying he would she and his best friend would be good together.(This one is not that bad just weird that he kept thinking about it)

He went to the gym and told me these two girls were talking about there glutes and saying who’s is bigger. The he goes on saying but dw yours is bigger.

I’m probably sensitive and jealous but it’s hard when he says things that I question

[Caroline91]

@slatyb offered some really good, basic advice. You and your boyfriend are both young and learning how to be in a relationship. You need to learn to speak up and let him know when something bothers you, set boundaries and he needs to learn how to be sensitive to and respectful of you and your feelings. Give yourselves a chance to figure it out. If he doesn't get it, then he is too immature to be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship yet.

[MsProsperity]

Tell him to stop telling you nonsense or you’ll leave

[Flatmanlewis]

…this is why most girls north of age 25 tend to have figured out immature guy BS is annoying and date 3-5 years older than they are, on average. Not many guys between 18-24 who are mature enough to not say stupid shit.

[DrPepper12]

I think he's trolling you tbh. Why I don't know. He's rude if he knows this bothers u. Give him his own medicine. I've found that shuts men up pretty damn quick.

[slatyb]

Have you told him how you feel? Don't advise him of doing something wrong, just tell him how you feel when he talks about things like that.

[HighValue]

Sounds like he may be too immature for a good lasting relationship.

[David94358]

Stop dating immature highschool guys maybe?

[Caroline91]

Well, since she's probably in HS, that's probably not a good option. Sounds like they are both inexperienced and trying to figure it out.

[David94358]

@Caroline91 Well then she should not lie about her age here when she is listed as 18-24. I'm basing my advice on what she has listed..

[Caroline91]

Whoops! I missed that. I based it off of you calling him a hs guy in your response and now realize that was a slam on his maturity level. Sounds to me like they both need to up their maturity level, but especially him. Thanks for being patient with my misunderstanding it. :)

[David94358]

@Caroline91 he is a HS guy because one of his stories is prom she (if her age is correct should be college age)

[Caroline91]

@david94358 So, now I am confused. Perhaps she marked 18-24 bc she IS in hs. You know, some hs students are 18 before graduation, which would then prom would make sense.

[David94358]

@Caroline91 that is possible, although it doesn't change my advice to her. Even if she is only 18, she is an adult now so she is free to go after a more mature partner.

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

SORRY BUT IF REVERSED THE SITUATION WONDER HOW LONG HE WILL BE ABLE TO GET SMILES.

[Asker]

Sorry but, I’m confused by what you are saying?

[Anonymous]

every guy in the world gets turned on by those things. good boyfriends keep quiet about it

[Anonymous]

You have a real loser on your hands, right there.