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Sexual Health My boyfriend is a 36 year old virgin, should I be worried?
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 weeks. Just the other day, we both were talking and joking about our past experiences. Well I asked him how many girls he's slept with, and he told me he's still a virgin... this has me worried. It's even more weird that a man his age hadn't had a girlfriend... I'm his first girlfriend. I asked him why he put himself in this position and he told me "I've never cared about women until recently". I think I should dump him, I mean he's very nice but this is kinda strange to me?
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28 68I wouldn't consider that a deal breaker in the least.
To normal people in the real world: That is weird
To gaggers: Doesn't matter
lol
Ir is weird, cause it's uncommon, but it shouldn't matter.
@AleDeEurope I mean ya he could be a great person blah blah, but i mean the fact that this:
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was a comedy being sold in every store I think proves my point
Hahaha yeah, I know what you're saying.
i don't think that's a fair statement to make. who's to say what is 'normal' anyway?
@justbanANNAz I think that would be the majority consensus in my opinion Definitely debatable, like everything on this website
what's wrong with giving the guy a chance? Dumping him cause he's still a virgin seems kinda cruel on your part, don't you think?
it´s not strange. i bet he did care for girls but he couldn´t find a girl. "not caring" is a common excuse for that. you should at least give him a chance.
Maybe he just chose to be single all that time.. Not everyone needs a relationship to be happy. Maybe he's at the stage in his life when he finally feels ready for it.
It doesn't mean he's freaking weird.
Then you'd just be perpetuating his situation.
Guy doesn't have girlfriend or slept with one
Girl shows interest in him and finds this fact out
Girl loses interest because of this
Girl leaves guy
Guy doesn't have girlfriend or slept with one
Rinse and repeat.
Lmao. It's like a person who never have job experience and no one will hire him.
@Bananadream thats exactly it
That is kinda strange really..
I don't pursue sex but I had a girl come onto me hard for some reason. Ended up losing my virginity to her. I still don't pursue sex. I don't want sex. I want to focus on life.
Seriously does not matter, put the moves on him and get that shit done!
You think you should dump him? jesus christ maybe that is why he has stayed single so long, girls like you. I just dated a 34 year old women who had sex a single time in her life and never had a boyfriend, it didn't even phase me. Why are women so damn shallow?
Unless you're a nymphomaniac then it shouldn't matter. You said that he's a very nice guy, is that not enough?
Just give him love.
It will be fun, you can school him, and make him a great lover, that knows how to touch you.
Why do you think he hasn't had a girlfriend before? have you ever asked him that?
Doesn't matter... Some people just move very... traditional
Just fuck the shit out of him so he won't be a virgin anymore.
Well, I am 30 year old virgin and I don't think there is something wrong with that. I don't think I can't make a girl happy (although we shell see in the future). So I think that you should concentrate on his current behaviour and see if he makes you happy. If he does, enjoy with him. If he doesn't, you can try looking elsewhere. Thinking about his past can't help much, although you can, of course, ask him about it, if you are interested. But don't pressure him if he doesn't want to talk about the past.
Yeah most people in their 40's who are virgins are pedos.
I was 33 before I had my first (current but falling apart) relationship. I'm still a virgin. Would you have felt better if he had slept with a random girl just to lose his V card?
Wow, no sex yet even though you are in a relationship?
@moviedude714 we're Catholic.
@moviedude714 I'm not really sure where I'm going after this, though. I may not wait until marriage, but I don't want to just sleep around.
@moviedude714 I'm having a crisis of faith, you could say.
Why the hell you wanna dump him?
Do you like to reward his honesty by dumping him. Isn't it better he is honest than he lied to you?
Give him a chance, wath can you lose?
If he is a man you should be worried of he definitly would have lied to you.
You should be proud he's virgin