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My boyfriend won't have sex with me?

My boyfriend won't ever initiate sex unless he is drunk. He likes porn and will jerk off over anime he watches on the tv when I am asleep next to him. He will not touch me or want sex ever unless he is drunk, but he would gladly watch porn. When he is drunk he is selfish in the bedroom and won't try and get me to orgasm, it is all about him. He has told me when we first started dating that he wants to have sex with other people and can't help how he feels. He has cheated on me in the past, and that is where my downworld spiral with depression got worse. If I try to have sex with him he forcebly pushes me away or sighs and makes up any excuse not to have sex. I'm at the end of my rope here with it and I need desperate help. I have never hated myself so much in my entire life and have been thinking about suicide constantly, almost everyday. I will be surprised if I make it through this year. I don't want to break up with him but I feel like he would be fine without me and would go sleep around. What should I do? Please help.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Come on it's obvious.. dump this guy. He's not worth it... he fucking cheated on you.

    You know it'll never work out if he acts like this.

    Don't destroy yourself.

    He clearly doesn't return the love you give him... you seem like such an honest, loving and loyal person and he is none of that.

  • Sounds like a right asshole, you should be with someone who's passionate about a relationship, and I don't think there'd be any reason to watch porn in a relationship. It seems plain stupid.

    • Just saw that last bit and my heart sank. 😢 Don't quit your life because of some unmotivated twat, go find someone who will treat you right! There is nothing wrong with you at all! You aren't to blame for his fucked up behavior! *Metaphorical sigh* Sorry I got all carried away there, but I hate seeing people questioning whether or not to quit their life because of something that isn't their fault, and their "significant other" (😡) doesn't care. Do yourself a favour and ditch that moefoe, find another girl or boy that's TRULY invested in a relationship with you, and make a move. Don't commit suicide just because of one asshole, I'm sure there's another guy or girl out there who loves you to the ends of the universe.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Girl you need to get with a man who does nothing but pampers you with sex and is so attracted to you he won’t wanna stop touching you! But still have some distance! I have been there and been emotionally abused by my ex and now I am with someone who loves me and my body and takes care of both!

  • I think you know you need to break up with him unfortunately he isn't gonna change I personally think you should have dumped his ass the moment he cheated on you

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  • You are with someone that is clearly not attracted to you and don't want to be with you wake up and stop keeping people in you're life that don't help

  • You should really break up with him. Your relationship is far from healthy.

  • Are you shure he is really a boyfriend?

  • Bin him , he won't change

  • break up
    this guy is sick in the head

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