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Sexual Health My daughter is 14 and wants to know about oral sex :\ should I tell her? Or have her ask her father. ?
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14 52Think that is something that should be talking to her about.
Tell her, but be sure both you AND the hubby area there during the discussion.
Use pictures, NOT a live demo.
Show her a sex Ed video talk about it maybe she would be comfortable with you I guess
Don’t get into that with her
Have her speak with her father
I can understand talking about sex and guiding her in life and tell her to wait till she’s married but oral sex?
Better you tell her then some stranger she elopes with
You should tell her that isn't something she should be focusing her mind on at her young age, you should refocus the importance of school and her education. I would spend time stressing the shortest of life and how vital it is she makes the most of her school years.
I would then determine where and who she was with who put such thoughts into her head and distance her from them.
When you choose to discuss such matters with your daughter, do it has a couple. Don't ever make your child uncomfortable talking about anything with their partners. That will do untold damage to come.
She might feel too awkward to ask her father, so I think you should tell her because she had the courage to come to you and ask.
she's probably seen it in porn already so tell her.
Really they watching porn that young?
sometimes even younger. But 14 is not really young to watch porn anymore.
and it also depends on what kind of porn we are talking about. Some videos are documentaries for today's standards
Dam i didn't watch porn till I was 20 and it was at a movie theater i was taken to for my batcherlate party
Why would you not tell her? What would be the point, let alone benefit? It's your job as a parent to educate her about sex and sexuality so that she can make the most informes decision.
It's also especially important because otherwise she will be badly misinformed by her friends and the internet. And that's dangerous. So please, do your job.
tell her. it's better for her to learn from you than from random
You should tell her. Better to control the narrative
It depends on if she wants you to exsplain it if so you should tell her the female side of it an let your husband tell her the guys side so she has both sides thoughts of it an both your perspective views on it
I'd say that's a mom's job to talk to her daughter about sex.
No, no, no!! You tell her. Dads just going to get super embarrassed and fuck it all up. Poor girl will be traumatized for the rest of her life.
Like she doesn't already know! 1993 called on a cordless phone.. It said you probably knew then!
Your daughter came to you, so answer her questions, she obviously feels comfortable discussing this with you, not her father.
It's probably better for girls to learn about sex mainly from their mother or from both parents together. The latter is probably better, but it might be less comfortable.
As a parent you should be able to have them come to you for anything , even if it is sex related. she's a teenager and it would be better to hear from you then her being young and exploring things on her own or with friends
Giving her correct info is better than receiving the teen version.
You’re the adult she asked!