My fiancé confessed that he is not interested in sex anymore. What can I do?
Lately, he confessed that he doesn’t enjoy sex anymore and he couldn’t keep pretending and lying to each of us. Although he says that not enjoying the exact same things should not be a problem, one night when we were drunk we had a long conversation about the possible underlying reasons of his lack of interest in sex; he admitted that “Sex with his ex was perfect. Because they enjoyed the same things and had a harmony. But everything else sucked except for the sex and it was the only thing that kept them together”. He also has a big trauma about how it ended with his ex and we found out it is one of the reasons why he can’t enjoy anymore.
Whatsoever, I know that I should not feel guilty about not enjoying exactly the same things. But it seems like I cannot stop thinking about how could I change my sexual behaviors to make them fit his fantasies better... also the guilt... We really love each other. I’m so stuck. And scared. I don’t know what to do and there is a little time left to our wedding.
Anyone having a similar experience or any advices?
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