My girlfriend finds it weird that I don't find Vaginas appealing but what guy truly does?

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I know what your thinking but I don't mean it in that way. What I mean is that when me and her were talking I mentioned how I don't think about her pussy and much rather think about her body as a whole. She thinks it weird. But of course it feels nice to be inside but the Vagina itself doesn't turn me on. 
She thinks I'm a rare breed but I dont think so. I'm pretty sure most guys don't think about eating a Girl out when they think about sexy time. I like everything else and think about her ass and tits but not her Vagina. Surprisingly I actually think about her anus more then it. Is this normal? Is it rare or normal?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm bisexual, and I don't think vaginas are cute at all. It's really rare for me to see a vagina and think it looks good, but that doesn't mean I don't love them. I do think of eating girls out and enjoy it, but it's not the actual vagina that's appealing to me, it's the girls and their reaction to being sexually stimulated. I think dicks are more attractive, but I think women are more attractive as a whole if that makes sense lmao.
I don't know what's normal. Everyone is different. I can tell you though, that guys who love vagina are better lovers. I was with a guy who didn't like looking at vaginas and he would never eat me out and would only do doggy and missionary. Boring af. My current boyfriend is so enthusiastic about giving me head, I'm so blessed haha

spuitkaas · Accepted Answer

I think it's totally normal. A lot of girls I know have the same thing (don't know about guys). The penis is for me also just a body part. It's not that I don't like the look, but I don't get super turned on by looking at it either. That's why I don't really love dickpics. I like the act and the view of the act, but not just a loose body part.

Afrochick · Accepted Answer

" I'm pretty sure most guys don't think about eating a Girl out when they think about sexy time."

LOL speak for yourself.

"Surprisingly I actually think about her anus more then it"

DING DING DING RED FLAG!
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teawrecks · Accepted Answer

If you don't find my vagina appealing then you don't need it, and it certainly doesn't need your cock. Wouldn't waste my time on someone like you.

ak666 · Accepted Answer

Seems somewhat unusual to me.

I freaking love vaginas, they're my favorite part (I mean besides personality and yada yada). I love looking at them and touching them.

That said, I don't always like going down on a girl for very extended periods of time. It makes me kind of frustrated if it's been like 10 minutes+ and I want to go to intercourse, though I keep on going anyway to try to make her happy.

"Surprisingly I actually think about her anus more then it."

That seems a little bit odd to me too, though I definitely can't speak on behalf of all guys out there.

Kuraj · Accepted Answer

I was going to agree with the whole "vaginas not appealing" thing.
But then, they don't turn you on and you don't think of eating them out?

I mean, I agree that vagina itself isn't really what I would call "appealing", but there is hardly anything that turns me on more than the things you mentioned not particularly liking.

BuchitaBuchys · Answer

Lots of men on here love vaginas and love eating out.
My first ex was more like you and sex with him sucked.
My second ex loved my vag and wanted pics and would love to eat me out.

So I'm not sure how common or uncommon it is.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Nope. Not normal. I love the look of female genitalia and think about them often. I also enjoy eating her out immensely. And I really don't think of a woman's anus at all. So I side totally with your girlfriend.

Curmudgeon · Answer

You should have stated that you prefer the boobage and started fondling her instead. Win-win.

drummergirl18 · Answer

I'm the same way. I'm not repulsed by dick or vagina but I don't get like turned on by looking at them.

BillyTheMountain · Answer

In one way, it is pretty gross... But when you're horny, biology just makes you want to eat it!

Zendrya · Answer

I think most of the guys on this site look forward to preforming oral sex or that is at least how they portray it on other questions

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

I definitely do.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

I love them... most are beautiful IMHO;-)

Luminifera · Answer

Heterosexual and bisexual guys do. Please reconsider your sexuality, buddy.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Some vaginas are attractive and some are really ugly.

TadCurious · Answer

I think you're wrong about this. I think the vast majority of straight guys are fascinated by girls' vaginas. I know I am. I love the way they look. I think they're EXTREMELY sexy and erotic looking. And yes, I do fantasize about eating a girl out.

idkwtftoputhere · Answer

it's probs normal, I mean vagina's aren't the prettiest things in the world lmao

Waffles731 · Answer

I find vagina appealing

somanybugs · Answer

Vaginas are extremely ugly, but it's really pretty if you know what I mean. I don't know.

Jessicocoa · Answer

Um, yeah it kinda is a bit weird.

SlightlyCrazy · Answer

No I'm not like you A women's actual vagina is pretty freaking hot This I also happen to enjoy oral and thinking about it is a big turn on They are indeed asthetically pleasing