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Sexual Health My husband stopped talking to me after I objected to his request of posing nude. What can I do?
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We are married for 4 years. Around two months back he wanted me to pose for a nude painting in front of an artist who is his friend. Apparently his friend has been struggling with his career and he has been asked to submit a nude art. My husband and his friend came up with his request and trying to convince me to the extent of even pleading but I have objected every single time as am not comfortable with this. I told him that am really not into this and he must understand. It's been more than two weeks and my husband isn't speaking with me. Any solutions here?
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3 35Not cool. Your decision not to be nude in front of someone else is reasonable.
Thanks for supporting my decision
Enjoy the quiet time
Tell him to be a man... wtf, childish af
It's indeed childish ro nit speak with me over this. Well I hope it changes soon as I feel like we have drifted apart over this.
What a shame. If you want to speak Dm me😊
that's too bad, I guess you can change your mind... it seems pretty important to him. He probably wants a nice painting with you as the subject, that's sweet... I assume sex is off the table... but you have to be comfortable with it... I was an art school model for 3 years, I was nervous in the beginning.. after that I was sometimes cold or too warm, but not "shy"
Give him the couch to sleep on until he smartens up and respects you.
⚫He is not even worthy to be called your husband for some petty shit. You being his wife it does not mean for him to treat you as his own property. You habe your own say so let him look for the Exit. 💃
Dang wtf that a very odd request you sure he not gay
First of all, you're husband's an asshole for not respecting your boundries, and for siding with his friend over you. I suspect your hubby has an ulterior plan in store.
However, a solution may be for you to pose in a bikini and let the artist use his imagination to fill in the rest. If he really is an artist, it shouldn't be difficult... if not, then you made a wise move.
Good luck with this.
Well this seems a god idea, would suggest them if it's fine that I pose in a bikini. Am ready to pose with some clothes on but being stark naked I think I can't do it.
Do what you feel comfortable with but don't be surprised when they start pressuring you for more. DM me afterwards and let me know how it goes, I'm genuinely concerned. Good luck!
@open2it, pushing boundaries is okay if it is between the two of them. But asking her to pose nude in front someone else is questionable especially if she has never made any comment even in a fantasy. My wife has posed for me and I really enjoy those times and memories but they are mine. I will never share them because of the love and respect I have for her. Even if for some unforeseeable reason we split I would not post them for revenge. If she would pose in a bikini instead of nude that is still her choice. Shame on him for wanting to share her body even for a painting! I'm with her!
@Boat4Fun you basically stated what I said... thanks for the confirmation, I guess?
You are welcome!
Thanks guys for the support here. It feels good when you get much needed support when things aren't working. I told him am ready to pose with some clothes on to the extent of even a lingerie or bikini and he responded for the first time after so many days that if I can pose in a bikini it isn't going to be a problem posing nude. He said the embarrassment would be gone if I rehearse posing nude in front of his friend. I couldn't reply anything he's so damn adamant. Thats where things stand now.
Wow, this guy needs help... tell him to grow up or get out.
Bikini and nude are not the same. He needs to come to reality. I'm sure you are an attractive lady. I think my lady is too, but I'm not going to share her even if just nude. We support you! Stand strong!
U are his wife
How can he be okay wirh someone seeing u nude?
isn't he jealous?
If he had been jealous he wouldn't ever have requested to do this for his friend. He is completely okay with his friend seeing me naked. Well that's what he said.
Thats not understandable How a man would be ok to let a guy see his wife
Your man is the only one who should see your body lol Hard to understand him Gıd bless you
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He should respect your wishes.
Wow he sounds like a JERK! If you aren't into you aren't into it jeez, if he truly cared for you he would understand and wouldn't act like a total tool bag about it.
Yes he is behaving very odd and I don't know how to get out of this
If your husband won't respect your wishes he needs to find a new wife that will obey him and never question him.
Sorry but your husband wants you to fuck the man thinking
you being nude make you horny and need fucked
The next time he ask you to pose nude ask him you want me to fuck him
I think he is a cuckold husband. If you give in now. In future u will regularly be having sex with his friends and strangers while him watching you have sex.