Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My man would rather jack off than have sex with me?
Arizonababe2018 Xper 2
Ok so I'm trying this app to try and get some advice. Long story short I'm a very sexual woman and my man is not. here's the dilemma. When we have sex he can't cum and if he does its very rare, he usually gives up and has to go jack off in the morning while I'm sleeping in order to cum. My thing is he has no issue cumming when he is jacking off by himself behind closed doors so why can't I make him cum? I have tried to talk to him and tell him to wake me up no matter what time it is, he said he did it cuz he was too tired for sex so I've tried to tell him even if he's exhausted we dont have to have sex but I'd like to feel involved and feel like I helped him cum so I told him i can help jack him off, moan and rub his balls or give him head as he strokes it but he refuses and still Jack's off in the bathroom with the door locked so I can't just go in and help him. Every time I try to talk to him about it he immediately gets pissed off and never trys any of my ideas that may help him/us. a lot of people have said maybe he has death grip and he got too used to his hand and if he stops masturbating his penis will get more sensitive and my vagina will start feeling better than his hand I've told him that but he doesn't seem to care and continues to do it anyways. It's a big issue to me cuz I have a cum obsession so if he doesn't get off Im not fully satisfied and I feel sad that I can't get my own man off and then I end up getting upset. He says that I just need to get over it and deal with it but i just don't get it because in most mens eyes they would love a woman like me (since I love sex and am practically willing to do anything during sex) so I find it really odd that my man isn't like that and doesn't enjoy it as much as he should. he's definitely not cheating, isn't gay, he said he's very attracted to me, he doesn't have a porn addiction (according to him he never watches it) so I don't know what the issue is and what can make it better? Please help and give me your advice.
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What Girls & Guys Said
4 23people, stop answering this
not only are there MHO's, but, she no longer comes to the site. STOP ANSWERING
Are you SURE he isn't gay or asexual?
lol, it's funny you said "app", it didn't used to be an app. it used to be only accessibly via p. c.