My #metoo story, should I got public?

Like every other girl I do have a #metoo story. It happened few years ago when I was a high school junior. I was going to fail important class and only thing that could have saved me was perfect Research paper. So I went to that guy who I thought was a friend od mine and ask him wether he could write it for me. He was a nerd and straight A guy so I knew it would be a good one. He said sure no problem but I want to lose my virginity with you. I can't describe how shocked and disgusted I were. I told him he's a moron. He right away made me another offer - paper for a blowjob. I slapped him and left.

But the next day when I couldn't write anything good I called him and told him I really need his help. He replied that his offer still stands but so does the price. So I went to his place and gave him a blowjob.

Thankfully it didn't take him long to finish. He did that to my mouth which I didn't allowed even my past boyfriend to do. I quickly left and vomited on the street in front of his house.

It's fair to say he delivered and I passed the class thanks to the research paper he wrote for me. I could later go to college I wanted.

But I'm still hurt by the experience. It returns to me very often. Fact that he's a public figure makes it even worse...

So should I reveal my story?
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  • You know what you can do anything that you want to but look at the picture in the long run what is it going to accomplish nothing is actually going to show you being in a whole different light than you would want to be showing in I think you should let it go I mean the guy could have went about it the whole different way or whole different matter but I think you would end up hurting yourself in the long run if you go public really think about it even though it is a hot sexy story I would write a book or something I think about it and I think about what would I have done and what would I have said and it would have been completely different even though the same way maybe I don't really mean it that way but I mean I hope you know what I mean LOL no don't do it you're going to end up hurting yourself in the long run but I do love the story it is pretty hot

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  • No lol. I’m more disgusted by you using someone else to do your academic work. You cheated.

    All he did was make you an offer. You’re the one who lied. You’re the one who couldn’t cut it academically. You’re the one who used him.

    And oh poor you! Boo-hoo.

    Now you want to smear him publicly to feel better about yourself because you know, deep down, that you compromised yourself and sold yourself out for sex.

    You could have always—gasp—written the paper yourself? Or gone and asked someone else for help?

    You even assaulted him by smacking him. He was completely open and up front with what he wanted. You’re the liar. And a violent one at that.

    But you’re the good person here, right.

    • Perfect response!

Most Helpful Girls

  • No. That's not really a metoo story either.
    You were too lazy to do something, so you willingly chose to be a shut and give a blow job.
    You're actually belittling the movement by pretending that story makes you part of it.

    Regretting your actions does NOT make it a metoo thing

    • Thank you for verbalising what u was thinking I was battling internally with this thinking I'm pretty sure this ain't a metoo story as he may of taken advantage at the end of the day but she full well made the choice

    • Yeah.. whether or not you call him a dick for saying paper for head is up to you, but there was no coercion or blackmail or anything, just a lazy girl who now thinks regreting the action means it was very bad. This mentality is why there's false rape claims. Like, (and all this is for the askers benefit rather than yours bogg :) ) my past boyfriend cheated on me. That does not mean I can say he raped me because I now regret being in a relationship with him.

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  • You gave consent and agreed to give him the blowjob so he could write your paper. You're only hurting yourself if you reveal your story.

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  • You had a choice, and you choose to whore yourself.

  • Should you reveal that the only reason you were able to go to college is because you had someone else write your paper for you, and that you agreed a sexual favor in return for your academic cheating? Yeah that couldn't possibly impact badly on you... And this isn't a metoo situation as you had a choice in this matter, you chose to go along with it for your own personal gain, that isn't what metoo is about. You could have written your own paper and took the grade you were meant to have. Lets hope your college doesn't find out about it, less they kick you out or remove your degree from you for Academic Dishonesty.

  • That for gis help to cheat he made u give him head?

  • You just did.

  • I agree with 'snakeboop', and you shot yourself in the foot doing that.
    To begin with, this guy was an ASSHOLE to even suggest that, and you did make it worse by knuckling down to the bastard. If this is a true story, and I hope I am not wasting my time here, you need to rethink your priorities. You did yourself a disservice

  • Its your choice that you made in order to pass and you should live with the consequences of it. You had no negative outcome and got your desired goal which is why this should't even be a question all all. If anything you'd look ungrateful and people did much worse then this to reach their goal.

  • How is what he did sexual harassment or rape? He didn’t harass you, you approached him again because you did not want to go to the effort necessary to excel in that subject. It wasn’t a metoo moment, it was just prostitution.

    • Funny, but correct.

  • It might not be worth it if you can't prove that it actually happened.

  • Sure, go ahead and release your story.

  • You were the one who made the deal. You used him for what you needed him for. If anyone was at fault it was you. Thank the stars you just had to give him a blowjob.

    • it's exactly like a prostitute claiming it's rape when she agreed to have sex for money xD... this isn't how rape works.

  • Sounds like you need to find ways to develop your research and writing skills.
    He was a pig to make that offer.
    You were a fool to accept.
    You're not a victim, not the same as true victims that suffered things out of their control.
    Just suck it up and move on (no pun intended).
    Learning experience.
    Do your own work.

    I agree completely with @donkeydan

  • Why would you want to go public for? You are the one that made the deal with him!! You both used each other for what you wanted not like he forced you to do anything with him. Just going to make yourself look like a fool.

    • exactly. it's not like he was her professor forcing her to suck his dick or fail class... this was completely on her terms.

    • @genericname85 I agree 💯! This just stupid!

  • You are not a victim. You exchanged a sexual favour for what you wanted. In fact you fraudulently submitted a paper you didn't write.

  • how is this a fucking metoo story? you fucked the guy cause you wanted the grades. your self victimization skills are mind boggeling.

    yeah the dude was an ass. so what? he didn't force himself on you. you had a choice. calling this rape is idiotic. it's not even blackmail. he didn't force you to do anyhing.

  • Out of respect for REAL victims, keep it to yourself. You should actually just never interact with anyone of the opposite sex ever again. You suck.

    • It's very rare that I genuinely get mad about a dumb post on GAG but you did it

  • Really now? You tried to cheat and get a "nerd guy" to do it all for you, and you're the one shocked and disgusted when he wanted something in return. And then you consented to doing it because still, you refused to do the work you were supposed to do yourself. That's not a metoo story, not a rape story, it's not even an extortion story, you put yourself in that situation.

  • bahahaha, #metoo doesn't mean that you're a whore, also.

    • this is exactly the problem with #metoo. it's a movement meant to help rape victims but wound up being a movement abused to throw unfair shit at men.

  • This is the story of a girl who knew what she was getting into, signed up for it anyway, and now wants out. If she had said no the first time and stuck with it firmly, there would be no story...

  • Why reveal your story? It’s not a metoo. I would never do such a thing if I was him, but you basically exchanged one service for another. You have to live with that. Think about if you reveal your story too. You’re basically outing yourself that you’re not intelligent enough and that you voluntarily blew someone someone else for them to write your paper. No one forced you. You also could get kicked out of college.

  • You had the chance to say no, it was like a payment for his work. I'd say is more prostitution that a metoo case. He didn't force you to anything, you went to him knowing what was about to happen

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