Once you go black you never go back?

I’ve heard this on a couple of occasions. Does it mean that once you sleep or get in a relationship with a black person (male or female) then you’re less likely to enjoy sex with a white person? Is there any truth to this?
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  • My friends with benefits is a married woman. (Both she and her hub are white) She is somewhat thicc and tall, the kind reputedly liked by black men.

    She had an affair with a black (she said she saw him 5 times) over 2 months. He is younger than her by 10 years.

    She said it wasn’t all that as he was bigger than her husband but like her husband he was bad in bed, didn’t do much foreplay, kept going soft and didn’t bring her to orgasm.

    After I had done her she told me I had made her feel good because I did a good foreplay on her, felt attractive as my D was fully erect during foreplay and though it hurt, she felt good and that I wanted her when I inserted my D into her P..

    Finally when it was over she said she felt close to me and felt nice as well as in a good mood the next few days. Also she said the times she was with the other guy she didn’t feel it affected the bond she had with her husband but she felt after it had happened with me it definitely damaged that bond and by the 3rd time completely destroyed that bond as she said she has found herself not respecting him as much and no longer being as tolerant of his inadequacies.

  • Really depends on how much you're attracted to that race. You have some white women who are curious about sex with black men, and then they have it and are hooked, or didn't feel that great about it so they won't go back. And you have others who are already attracted to black anyway so regardless of what or how many black men they sleep with, they're always going to be into that.

    • I think so too. I have been with both races and my best sex has been with a white guy. I guess it has nothing to do with race and more with how the person uses his package

    • I'm black and the best sex I've had has been with Asian women, which I never expected.

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  • Typically, it refers white women that sleep with black men. As far as it being, I don't know... maybe it is, maybe it isn't 🤔. Perhaps you'll have to just find out for yourself. #believesomeofthehype

    • Thanks for the MHO!!!

  • It's not true at all. I've been with black guys and white guys. It's about the guy not the race.

    • 100% true

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  • i only been with 3 black guys...1 was a total friend but he liked blowjobs...1 was a guy from the internet a semi famous actor who wanted blowjobs... and another from a dating site and i wondered if he was going to want sex... so he comes over we make out he takes his thing for me to suck so i do... and i suck it on the date and 2 more times when we return to my place... not really a good run down of black men... but that one guy was super horny i'll tell you that.

  • Can't say there is truth to it, it is just a saying but the biggest guys I've actually seen are white, soo...

    To me race has nothing to do with it, I'm not going to marry someone cause of their race or penis size.

    • 100%. The biggest guy I’ve seen was also white

    • I know right? and I'm not into big guys either, cause I'm not into pain like that... prefer more average.

    • I also prefer average with a girth. I never understood the whole hype around big dicks cause it looks more painful than pleasurable

  • Not true, sadly... 😟

    Once you go black you never go back?
  • I only say that about Mac tech.

  • I've actually seen many women who've slept with black guys, then went back to being with their own race. I've seen many on Gag who say the sex was no different between a white male and a black male.

    For me personally though, I'm white and I started dating other races of women in my early 20's. I married a Native woman, then had a White girlfriend after we split up. Now I pretty much only pursue Asian women, but I do have a stronger attraction to brown women in general than I do most white women.

    I guess if you're into living by racist slogans, mine would be "Once you go Asian, you don't go back to Caucasian."

    • I also don’t think there’s any difference. Sex is sex and is not dependent on race

    • I think there's a slight difference for people like me, but it's more about skin tone, and the fact that I look at some women of color like I want to eat them, lol. Brown women just fill me with lust and I need to get close with them.

    • Have you ever been with a brown woman before?

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  • There is no truth to this. I've been with white guys, Latinos & black guys, I go with who connects with me most at the time.

  • It’s in reference to being ostracized by your community. Generally when people do unrepeatable things, they become untouchable…

    • But whatever, if you want to flip it with some bullshit myth because you're lonely, you'll just end up disappointing everyone sexually when you pull out your small wiener. Black men with White women have the highest divorce rates of any pairing. They obviously can't get the job done...

    • *reputable

    • *disreputable

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  • Just a stupid saying people make wouldn't say there is objective truth

  • That’s basically what it means. I went back. Ell oh ell!
    I’m not necessarily opposed to dating or sex with a black woman, but they definitely didn’t spoil me for all others. Ell oh ell!
    Might be different with black men, but i doubt it.

    • There isn’t any difference in my opinion

  • That's what the saying means.

    But it is just a saying

    • Thank you for your input

  • Lol no

  • Probably not much truth. Take a look at the number of black, single parent, households. Then again, who knows?

    • So you’re saying there is some correlation?

    • My last sentence: "Then again, who knows"?

  • That is exactly what it means. I would not say its the ultimate truth, but from my experience, it seems true. I have witnessed many people white people who used to date just white people, but once they dated that one black person, they never went back to dating white people again in all the partners the dated after that.

    There is also another saying, "Once you go white, you know its right" this one has a slightly different meaning though. It mostly refers to the fact that, there is nothing wrong with dating a white person ad a black person.

    • However there is truth that these sayings all have racist connotations to them. For example, " If you are black, stay back." Which basically means black people should always be at the back of the line. Whether it's jobs, education, health and all those things. So I would be skeptical in taking them as truths

  • This is something guys say. It is an old racist saying.

  • It was true for me. After I had sex with a black woman I did date a couple of white women again, but the sex was just never as exciting again. I only ever dated black women after that and have been married to a black woman for 20 years now. I still think she's the sexiest woman in the world.

  • Are you that damn stupid? BBC? And that's not the Britiish Broadcast Channel.

  • I had a black girlfriend during a year in college, didn't change anything. It was attraction and similar interests.

  • It means you can never go back to being normal because now you have HIV, syphilis and gonorrhea

    • Whoa nelly!!!

  • It’s just a sayin, a cocky one at best! It’s all subjective!

  • There is some truth. Black men are a lot more aggressive and will screw a girl like crazy. They also have a different personality and carry themselves differently. It’s probably some white girls have tried black men and were amazed at the different experiences they’ve become accustomed to. Although that’s changing because white guys are now being more aggressive as well. There is some truth to black guys having bigger penis which some girls may like or want to try. But in the end it’s just a sexual experience and eventually these girls will go back to a more secure relationship when they get older.

    • There is some truth to black men being more aggressive in bed and if that’s what a girl is into they she might continue seeking that from them. I, however find men being gentle and soft in bed more enticing

    • Sure the black guys do that too 😂. But this is all stereotypical stuff. Not all black guys are the same. Not all will have big dicks and be aggressive bulls in bed. Are you curious?

    • Very much curious. But I do know that a lot of things are just stereotypes and aren’t actually fully true

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