Okay a little back story. Have been seeing this guy. It was going really well. On the 4th date we did sexual things (blowjob and fingering). Afterwards I kinda got into my head that it was going to turn into a friends with benefits thing and I didn't want that. So these are the texts we exchanged after.I still got scared that he didn't like me the same so I sent this.Since then he's been hesitant with me so I asked.He never responded to that last thing so this is the last message I sent.I know I messed up and was confusing because I got into my own head. I'm going to leave it in his court now but do you think there's still a chance to fix this?
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I'm just going to leave it alone. I messed up so ill move on. I've already unmatched him on everything.
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So I saw him last night and we talked and hung out. Things are okay. Casual dating is what we're doing and I guess the idea never occurred to me. But we had fun and I'm just gonna go with it.
That’s why I don’t like texting, I’d rather talk on the phone.
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Alex_988_2Xper 6
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Stop letting others from using you and appreciate one who really like you. Take things slowly, no problem
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NutmustardXper 5
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You were doing fine on the first and maybe second set of messages, but I’m afraid you kinda ruined it after that. It sounds to me that it’s you that wants friends with benefits
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Sampike11Xper 7
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There is definitely still a chance, you may have been slightly confusing but personally it wouldn't have scared me away. I usually end up doing the same thing to myself and getting in my own head in situations like that, so maybe its from a point of understanding but if I was him and was truly into you it wouldn't ruin things at all.
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Simplismilez
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I'm just trying to fix things. I just hope he sees that.
Sampike11
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If it was me I would see that, since I'm the same way and in your position would've done the same. If he's really into you it should turn out fine
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4 25That’s why I don’t like texting, I’d rather talk on the phone.
Stop letting others from using you and appreciate one who really like you. Take things slowly, no problem
You were doing fine on the first and maybe second set of messages, but I’m afraid you kinda ruined it after that. It sounds to me that it’s you that wants friends with benefits
There is definitely still a chance, you may have been slightly confusing but personally it wouldn't have scared me away. I usually end up doing the same thing to myself and getting in my own head in situations like that, so maybe its from a point of understanding but if I was him and was truly into you it wouldn't ruin things at all.
I'm just trying to fix things. I just hope he sees that.
If it was me I would see that, since I'm the same way and in your position would've done the same. If he's really into you it should turn out fine
I believe that you can get it back together.