Sex with light on or off poll?

How do you or would rather have sex, with the lights on or off?
Full lights on
Vote A
Lights off
Vote B
A small light on (candles etc..)
Vote C
I don't mind on or off
Vote D
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Variety is the spice of life. I voted full light because I love to indulge my eyes in my partner's facial expressions and lovely female form while we have sex, but the low light of candles casts shadows that show her body in a beautiful way, and pitch dark makes you focus on what you feel and hear. It's all good.

  • No lights = no emotional connection in my book, if in any face to face position.

    Also some sorts of lighting = visual stimulation... great for rough/more arousing sex.

    No lights... is for people that want sex, but really don't want it to be with the one they are having sex with.

    • Lights off is no different than a Glory-hole... can't see who you are FK'ing.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would prefer a little light to be honest.
    Maybe with candles, maybe with dimmed light. I'd rather the light to be red or blue, these two colours arouse me a lot.
    Without any light I could not see my guy's face. With full light it would be full bright.
    Less light makes it hotter.

    • i agree with you... but real life is not romantic...

  • I'd have a small light on, just that you can see, but not all the lights on. That would make me uncomfortable.

  • I like some light, so I can watch what's going on. Added turn on!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I prefer light on because I get turned on by what I see, but going to the park at night is definitely much more fun than not going to the park at all.

  • I'm indifferent

  • Girls seem to love candlelight. I can deal with that, as long as there IS light of some sort.

  • I prefer dimmed or candles, it just sets the mood perfect

  • I want to SEE! Guys are visual. Talk about killing the mood with the lights off.

  • Ambiance lighting is most preferable.

  • I like to see what I'm doing, but I'm not making a Hollywood movie.

  • Sex with candles burning is very romantic.

  • i deffinitely wanna see stuff. we can have romantic sex in the dark for variety sometimes but i definitely like to visually apreciate my girl :P

  • A soft bedside table lamp or two is good enough for me.

  • Depends. If it is really romantic, then candles or even lights off. If it is like very passionate sex lights on!

  • Depends, how ugly are you exactly?

    • Hahahaha I was asking this question out of interest not out of self consciousness

  • Depends on how good looking the girl is.

  • Lights on or off it matters little.

  • turn that shitt off

  • With light on, I wanna see her face and enjoying her ride of sex.

  • I like lights on, I like to see things.

  • i like lights on..
    I want to see everything when I am down there :)

  • Enough light to see whats going on. Not too much light to get blinded
    I once dated a girl who only had sex in the dark, during the day it was almost like I was having sex with a blanket. That was the end of it all.

  • Lights on.

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