😱 Sex with over 100 women?

Alright, so I have this friend who has slept with over 100 girls.
Yesterday, he asked me if he should tell his future wife (whom he hasn't met yet) about that, or should he say "Oh, I slept with only 7 women in my entire life!"

The question goes to both guys and girls.

Guys if you were him what would you do?

And girls, if you were the future bride would you like to know the truth? How would you feel to know it?
😱 Sex with over 100 women?
😱 Sex with over 100 women?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If she asks, sure. For women it is a prize knowing she can land a man that has his pick of women. For a man, it is disgusting to know a woman has been with many men. Double standard? Yes, but that is reality which is driven by biology.

    "A key that can open many locks is a 'master key', a lock that can be opened by many keys is a crappy lock".

    • I hate that saying but it's true. 😒

    • Thumbs up for honesty.

  • You wanna build up your marriage on a lie? Not a good idea. First of all it's lying. Secondly you take away the choice of your partner to make.

    Actions do have consequences. Someone sleeps around? Good for them. But if as a result not everyone wants to date them, that's their issue

    • Yeh, that does make point.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He should tell her the truth. It’s not a good idea to start off a marriage on a lie. Personally I wouldn’t marry a guy like that but that’s me. If no one wants to marry him because of his body count though, then I suppose that’s the consequences of his actions.

  • I don't care how many girls a guy has slept with. The only thing I care about was did he wear a condom as I don't want to catch herpes or any other STD.

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  • No need to tell her about the 100 it will just create issues and it is in the past so it is no big deal

  • I probably would keep it a secret

  • If he was tested for everything under the sun and was clean my only concern is that I would be wondering about if I have to run into these women all the time and I would need to be sure he was not friends with anyone he had slept with. Also as long as he did not mistreat them the actual number of women would not matter to me.

    • Why would you be bothered to meet the girls he had slept with before you? I mean I understand it, I just want to know your opinion.

    • For myself I just would not like it

    • I see.

  • He doesn’t need to give a specific number he can just say that he had slept with woman before I feel like some things are better when not asked and he doesn’t have to tell her every detail.

  • That's a lot...

    I don't know how I'd feel about that to be honest. Not good. He shouldn't lie, just

    • ... just keep it private and make sure he has no stds.

    • What if you ask him about it? What should he do then?

    • Be as vague as possible without being dishonest.

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  • Whoops better pass on this one. 😬 Does it have to be 100 all at once or over a period of time?

    My advice is lie. She will probably lie as well. The past is the past. Live in the now and look forward.

    • Come on, not all at once of course. 😄

  • She should know about this if it's a big deal to her. Don't want any regrets later and destroy the marriage afterwards. Better wreck it before if it's a big deal.

  • Bad idea to confess this. No real upside that I can see.

  • I would like to know.

  • Would not come up with that without being asked. But maybe important to tell before marriage. Maximum I'd talk about 20 or 30 maybe. 100 could ruin anything

  • i dont think jhit is getting a future wife 😂

  • Men frequently lie by "overestimating" the number of women they had slept with so there would be hardly any reason for her to trust me, the convo would probably go like
    "I had sex with over 100 women"
    "lol sure"

  • someone's sex life shouldn't be judged? It's their life?

  • I well feel bad tho coz 100 is a really big number.

  • I'd prefer honesty. I'd question how it became that high.

    • What's the reason to know it?

    • Curiosity, I like honesty in a relationship. Plus it provides information about what kind of guy he is or was. A number that high indicates he likes sex and possibly has a high sex drive.

    • See, you answer your own question, so why ask?

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  • I have no idea how many women I slept with between 16 and just before 21, but it could easily be over 100. I changed drastically at 21 and have only been with 2 since then. I'm not sure how to approach this either.

    • Then I suppose you can find an answer here too?

  • Personally You should Dart Him with a GPS Tracker, So as Not to become Infected

    • Infected with what? STDs? Who said one must get any disease or infections if they sleep with too many people? It's just square thinking.

    • In case you haven't heard there is a Global Pandemic. You Individually can Read can't you?

    • The more you sleep with the more your chances of getting something. It's like Russian Roulette. The more bullets you stuff in a cylinder hole the better your odds of dying.

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  • Lying is a great way to destroy any possibility of real trust.

  • I think he should not lie, she has a right to choose.

  • 100 women? No way I barely have four women in my entire life. He got games for sure

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