Shaving Downstairs. Am I a hypocrite?

So, this has been playing on my mind a little. When I'm with a guy I tend to expect him to always make sure he is totally clean shaven downstairs. I don't know why but I've always found the look much sexier (being shaved makes a penis look bigger), and enjoyed the feel of it. It also makes BJs way more fun! I like to think I'm a pretty relaxed girlfriend but this has always been one rule I've been kind of firm on: shave your junk or no sex with me.

However, here's were the hypocrisy comes in. I'm not nearly as strict about shaving my own downstairs area. In fact with my last boyfriend there was a 6 month period where I didn't shave my pussy at all while he kept himself totally shaved down there.

Is this weird? I think part of it is that I like the gendered role reversal. In society it is normally girls that are expected to stay immaculately hairless and in my relationships this is often switched around. Am I a hypocrite? Guys, would you shave for a girl even if she didn't herself?

Thanks a lot for reading!
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  • Yes you are being hypocritical but your now self aware and can change for the next time.

  • I wouldn't mind, I'm already shaving while my girl is just trimming the sides.

  • Yes. I think that no one should shave their genitals; trim maybe, but not shave.

  • Hypocracy is claiming to have beliefs that you dont have, this is a double standard.

    I wouldn't shave my junk for anyone, if that puts limits on my options then so be it.

  • It's somewhat hypocritical. However it's like guys who don't shave down there and expect women to be shaved.

    Personally I don't shave down there and so far I haven't been asked to do so. I'm open to it if I were asked though. But at the same time I've never asked a woman to shave down there either.

  • In short, yes

  • no, if you don't shave I will not too, keeping your pubic hair means you are nasty and unhygienic, it has nothing to do with gender roles, both genders ideally should shave their pubes.

  • Shaved area is less stinky than hairy , so I love shaved.. sometimes hairy pussy smells like asss 😷

    • Err well I shower regularly so mine doesn't but it is true that shaved genitals are just so much fresher feeling!

    • Yes , hairy area ( anus and vag) stinks ,, when she don't take shower at end of day

    • Ew, I mean who doesn't shower though? haha

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