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Should I cut it off with my fwb?

So I am falling for my friends with benefits. He is so sweet to me. He is so loving and gentle. He is always smiling at me. He always wants a hug as soon as I see him. He refuses to let me leave his house without giving him a hug. When we are finished having sex and we’re cleaning up and getting dressed, I catch him just looking at me with a smile on his face. If I catch him he will say something like “you’re so cute it doesn’t make any sense”. He always tells me to let him know I made it home safe. When I do, he says ok hun then goodnight beautiful. He always tells me how pretty I am. I went into this expecting it to be have sex, leave that’s it. I don’t text him after we leave each other because I’m trying to keep my feelings in check. He will text and ask can’t I just text and say hi sometimes. He also recently asked if I have been giving my p*ssy away. I’m not sure how he feels but I’m terrified of talking about it with him.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Think it's likely he likes you, if you actually like him then go for it. If he doesn't want a relationship then you at least know and sure you might lose casual sex but how important is that really.

  • Hello? He's nuts about you. What are you waiting for, an engraved invitation? This guy is treating you like a lover so move things along.

    • I’m terrified that it’s just an act. I’ve been so hurt by my ex I can’t handle being hurt again.

    • This is a no risk, no reward kind of business. He's already at risk reaching out to you emotionally the way he is. In a healthy relationship, there needs to be roughly equal emotional investment over time. He's over invested and you're under invested. Time to put on your big girl panties and invest, don't you think?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Date him and find out on slow way just anything you might have spared out until now. It sounds that he's a good guy and does care about you even after sex and much more

  • I assume he’s feeling distant from you with the lack of text, and is worried. Why not date him? He sounds like a great guy.

  • Why are you so scared. Even if he doesn't have feelings, it doesn't mean he won't want to have sex with you anymore.

  • Sheesh... another friends with benefits whore.

    • For your information I was in a 13 year relationship with one guy and got severely heart broken. The guy I’m friends with benefits with I have known for 15 years so I’m not a whore. I just love too easy and trust too easy and don’t want to get my heart broken but I also like sex so fuck you dumb ass!

    • Keep telling yourself you are not a whore.

  • Have you been somewhat monogamous or are there others? If he's asking then maybe he's interested in more.

    • I’m not sure about him but he is the only one I am seeing.

  • Why can’t you make it a relationship? Seems like he wants to

  • He may want to go more than a friends with benefits or he is the type that every sex must have that certain touch to it.

    However from the sounds of it it is the former.

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