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Abigail Finney thought she was having sex with her boyfriend.
In his dorm room at Purdue University in West Lafayette, Indiana, Finney had fallen asleep with him cuddling beside her in his loft bed. Elsewhere in the same room, three of her boyfriend’s buddies were crashed on a futon after a casual night that involved a lot of video games and a little drinking, although Finney says she stayed sober.
Later, in a hazy half-awake state, Finney felt a hand from behind fondling her over her t-shirt. Keeping quiet so as not to awake the others in the dark room, she allowed further groping from the man in bed with her, which led to brief intercourse, all the while with her back to him.
The sex ended when Finney said she had to go to the bathroom — and only after she returned, as she started to climb back into the loft, did she realize the man in bed with her wasn’t her boyfriend, but rather one of his friends.
“I remember him grinning at me. It was a freaky image,” Finney told BuzzFeed in a recent article. “I was just kind of — I was frantic. I didn’t know what was going on.”
Her report of the incident eventually led to a rape charge against Donald Grant Ward, who was acquitted earlier this year of any wrongdoing in the February 2017 encounter, reports the Lafayette Journal & Courier.
Under Indiana law that defines rape as an act of aggression or involving an unwilling victim, Ward can’t be convicted just because Finney, who consented to the sex, believed he was someone other than who she thought he was, Ward’s attorney Kirk Freeman told TV station WLFI.
“Lots of women this weekend are going to have sex with Navy Seals, going to have sex with football heroes, going to have sex with guys that rescue kittens from the middle of the interstate, and are going to have sex with men who tell them, ‘I love you,’ and, ‘I’m ready for a commitment,'” Freeman said. “Just because they are lying doesn’t make it rape.”
What Girls & Guys Said
7 26The guy she fell asleep with wasn't her boyfriend? Where did the boyfriend go.
I think he went to her room and fell asleep. Meanwhile, his pal inserted his engorged, impostor peen into Abby's young, unwitting sniz :(
Not a big deal.
She can be upset, but I don't it's illegal.
I mean she did consent it was just not the correct person.
Rape by fraud? Really?
Yes, really. What if the dude who you think is your dad isn't your dad? I mean, what if your dad took a coital break to visit the bathroom long enough for another gentleman to crawl in through the window, slip into bed with your wet & horny mom and drop a juicy load inside mommy's sniz hole in the spoons position? Would your attitude change?
Ufft getting personal are we? I can do that. Maybe she should check who's in bed with her. I mean how can someone be that stupid to not recognize their partners physical touch. She consented, end of story. Because last time I checked, not seeing the face of the person you're fucking isn't rape.
OK. So did you vote for option B? The "peen is peen" choice?
I didn't vote because it's a stupid case
It's a rape at first sight
it'd be like saying "im upset that i had sex with my brother, not realizing I had just had incest"
You can't just say that.. you knew it was your brother!
But she didn't know it was that other dude until after he filled her sniz with jizz.
oh, she knew alright
Nah. Did you watch the video?
she knew hun, she knew
lol. I disagree.
Wow... he was wrong... ge wanted to do that all th time... what a wicked friend...
What no it didn't happen
this is why i don't drink. The laws are crazy. Some states say men are still responsible for their actions even while drunk, while apparently women are not. Also, this is why you shouldn't have freaky butt sex. If she would have looked at the guy she was banging, she could have realized it wasn't her boyfriend a little sooner. she should be upset with herself for not looking who she was bumping uglies with.
she's a piece of shit
Can you kindly explain why in a mature manner?
She made the choice to do it... there is no way she didn’t know it was him. Even if she didn’t see him, she would just know.
So why did she fuck with another man instead of her boyfriend? 😑
Did you read the article and watch the video?
Video did not open. 🙄
It should work. It's on youtube. :)