Honestly, I was a real wretch around that time.
I didn't exactly have an affectionate upbringing and once puberty came around all that teenage angst smacked me right in the face and I kind of embraced the identity of the piece of shit that my mother said I was.
Girls for me around that time served as validation.
I didn't really want to date, but I definitely wanted their attention.
And with that came the stupid ways of thinking that being a delinquent who talks back to teachers, steals booze and breaks people's windows with bricks is "being cool".
And it worked because my peers, stuck in their equally stupid ways of thinking, thought it was cool too.
And so did the girls, some of which tried to go on dates with me and spend time with me in obvious ways, even this proper and bookish classmate of mine who I liked.
But ultimately I ended up dating an upperclassman girl who offered me the ultimate validation- of the sexual kind.
Nice! My parents were quite strict and thought I was a perfect angel. I stole cigarettes and never got caught
At 13/14 all I wanted was tons of handjobs. They always felt better than doing it myself solo!
Yuuup! Lol. I gave some hand jobs at that age lol
Young guys love them... but when I started having sex it was even better but a good handjob is still fun!
True. Wasn’t hard to make a young guy cum from a hand job.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I thought we were going to get married and be together forever. I still cry about it.
Shit really messed me up but everyone I knew tried to warn me so... I guess it was my fault.
From when you were 13? Ouch!
I sucked my first dick at 13, he fucked me at 14
From the time I was a little kid, I liked girls. I thought they were cute.
7th grade (12 or 13 years old) was when we were allowed to go to school dances. There was also a weekly dance in a youth hall at a local park for kids who were at least in 7th grade. Some of the girls were just starting to blossom. I remember what a thrill and how nervous I was to ask girls to dance. "Slow dancing" with a girl, and having boobies wrapped in a tight fuzzy, cashmere sweater pressed against me was the ultimate. It made me feel funny inside and my head swim.
At that age, I knew nothing about pussies. I knew there was a hole, but didn't know they were juicy. I couldn't imaging how sex worked. (I was a sheltered child. LOL) But I sure liked girls and boobies.
As far as relationships, I guess all I had in mind was holding hands, kissing, maybe some feeling up (boobies), and getting social cred for having a girlfriend.
I was in 14 or 15, in 9th grade when I finally kissed a girl. I was 16 and in 10th grade when I first got to see and touch a real girl and have sex. And finding out about pussy was a real eye opener. Wow, cool stuff! Who woulda thunk?
Right? Fun times!
Here's my story I was raped, beaten and left for dead, at 13 (just turned)
Afterwards finding out during recovery I was pregnant, then forced to have a live abortion. My so called parents threw me out of the house,& told me I got what I deserved. They never question who did this, or proceeded the matter, police tried to intervein but to no avail.
So I've been on my own since then.
It's not only made me stronger but a survivor.
I have survived many things in my life,& I'm no longer ashamed.
If I can help someone going through something similar I will, or of any of my life experiences.
Oh. my. goodness. Reading this made me physically ill. I am so sorry. Every bit of that is so awful and you did not deserve any of it. 😭
Thank you I appreciate you 🤗
I appreciate you too. Truly. Much love. ❤️
when I was 12/13, not so much of touching but I would undress in my bedroom with the light on so the two brothers that lived opposite me and a little higher could see me,
I also think their dad would watch me if he was home alone that was my big kick
Little exhibitionist! I like it!
aren't we all,
I was not. I was super shy about people seeing my body. I loved having them touch my body tho!
I was a case of delayed development and started getting interested in dating around age 15-16. This was long before porn was so accessible. I really just wanted to see what a naked girl looked like, and maybe touch her naked parts.
Sounds completely normal to me!
I don’t think porn was super accessible in my youth either. But my friend’s dad had quite a stash of explicit penthouse mags and vhs tapes. Internet porn wasn’t really a thing until after I was married.
Of course, I thought I was weird AF at that time, but I think most teens feel that way at some time.
At 13 a pile of us had all had sex, we now started pushing things.
at 13 and 14 we dated but it was really casual sex with a girl you dated for a couple months.
you then moved on to someone else.
we swapped partners a lot.
When I was 14, I just wanted a female best friend I could sleep with. I kinda still want that today. Too bad I could never have that.
Hmmmm. I wasn’t quite there at 14. But I think women who want that exist now.
I've wanted a to be a husband and have a wife since I was 9 so... you and I had very different priorities at 13/14. That still hasn't changed otherwise I wouldn't still have my ring.
Still waiting on someone to want to lie down telling each other everything about our lives at night and cuddle until waking up next to each other in the morning. Same dreams as when I was 13/14.
Only real difference is I got bigger, stronger, more tattooed and grew stubble.
@inventorofwarp I always wanted to be a wife and a mother. Always. I lost my virginity when I was 18, married him when I was 23 and had our children at 28 and 32. Just because I messed around with guys in Jr. High and HS doesn’t mean my priorities weren’t straight. Hubs messed around before me too. But sex has just been between us.
Was just my terrible attempt at a joke.
Really? At 13/14? LOL!! I was just wanting to kiss this really cute girl, and hoping she wanted to kiss me, too, but I would never have know what to do, then, if she did!! LOL!!
We did! And boobies were felt! True story! Lol
@loves2learn The one I was CRUSHING on, didn't have any obvious boobies, and maybe that is why I liked her so much! And maybe why I ADORE women with small breasts, now? Nobody else liked her, and she was SUPER smart, and wore glasses, and we just connected, because I was SUPER smart, and wore glasses! Both of us kind of Wrecked the Curve, and pissed off the lazy, and stupid kids. I liked the dresses she wore, and she ALWAYS smiled at me, and she was just the cutest of any in the class, then! LOL!! Why are you making me think about these things, so many years later!! LOL!! :)
@jacksmy my boobies were NOT obvious at all. I still let a few guys feel them and see them and they did not complain! I am 5’2” and I dated a shorter guy in HS because he saw me and went after me. Makes sense. But he was a loser and lacked confidence. The relationship went nowhere in the 6-8 months we were together. I was 15/16 and he was 18. I lied to my mom and told her he was 17 because she didn’t approve of me dating an “adult.” One of the eleventy-hundred lies I told her. Sigh.
At 13 I was already sucking dick but I was really hoping for a real relationship from a guy but that didn't come till later on around 16
When I was 14 I lost my virginity to a 19 year old woman. SHE was all I wanted, but I was just one of many she wanted.
I just made out with the girl from the neighborhood, playing games and hanging with friends
at age 13/14... I was still shy, and also my hormones fully hit me at age 13... so what I wanted was not to be a fool around girls, but I still want to get used and talk with them as it was pretty much impossible for me to avoid them or not being approached by them... so from age 13 to 15 was quite the trip for me, mentally, emotionally and physically... only one time I forgot my name when I was asked by an older girl, what my name was.
There was only one girl that was my friend and I could be "normal" with her... with all others I had some kind of inner panic about many things, so my only expectation was to get all that stuff under control.
Awww. That is really sweet. How are things now?
got out of it shortly after, gradual process... I also changed schools at age 16 so I said... "new me" nobody that knew me after age 16 could ever guess I was extremely shy as a kid... lol
Good for you dude. I am happy for you. I have always been quite shy but a guy that takes charge has always turned me on like nothing else.
I never did anything at all. The first time I hugged a boy it was my first boyfriend and I was a month shy of sixteen. After that whenever we met we only hugged each other hello and goodbye. When I was 17-and-a-half I wasn’t expecting it he just leaned in for a kiss and it kind of just happened. But aside from that there wasn’t anything else really going on. It stayed quite innocent.
Good for you! :)
I have recently begun thinking about being in a relationship for 3-4 years now. During my teens I was into cartoons, games, and anime I didn't think much of the opposite sex. But when I was asked by my friends about what kind of guys I would go for I always thought to myself "an older guy" answered them, after that, I never thought much because I didn't read know what kind of guy I wanted.
Nothing wrong with that!
Yeah 😁 I use to think I was kind of odd because people were losing their virginity and being coupled up it never bothered me though
Due to learning problems I didn't fully understand what a relatiomahip was.
Relationships weren’t a thing for me back then. But if it was, I guess respect?
I had no romantic interest in anyone until I was 16, and even then it was minimal and didn't last long. I didn't really start to want someone that way until I was 19.
So I guess what I wanted out of relationships at 13/14 was friendship
Nothing wrong with that. Everyone has their own timeline.
At 13.
I just wanted them to play basketball with me.
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