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What can a woman do to be more involved during sex?

As of course, just lying there is boring.
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  • Nature has designed sex most pleasant and enjoyable for both – men and women, but men are more expressive – may be because of their hormones – testosterone, but girls are taught to be shy, follow their male partner and never take lead in most cultures and societies. Girls tend to rely on the man to make the first move. Girls need not to wait always for them to feel horny, they need to know how to initiate sex and turn up the heat. Initiating sex is intimidating for most girls, but if you are going to getting naked and enjoy sex, you need to keep your all shyness and fears out and away. Now many girls are breaking this barrier and expressing what they need, what they enjoy and how to please them. This is basically because of education and increased level of confidence. One of the best ways to break the barrier of shyness is to use phone. You are not face to face, and so you can express yourself with much less shyness and get the things done.

    Kiss is the first step in love making. Most girls feel some discomfort or hesitation to kiss their male partner – particularly first to initiate the game of ultimate pleasure. Do not think of this as a man’s job. This is a traditional barrier. Make a move. Do not over think, you are not overstepping your boundaries, you are entering a new zone of surprise pleasure. Kissing boosts levels of dopamine in the brain, a desire-spiking neurotransmitter in both men and women. Learn to kiss your man to get your other half going, not on his lips but everywhere – including part looking like banana. ears ranked just behind it, whisper something (unclearly too) to encourage him or just kiss on earlobes that can help men reach their peak. You both will surprise - it is such a turn on. Try delicately nibbling or licking their ears as they are getting closer to orgasm, while whispering something – dirty.

    Do not be scared of the scrotum, you are going to do all that with him, gentle touching, sucking, squeezing or cupping, makes him wild and most men reach climax more easily during sex. It is most hot foreplay; use this technique with your all skills.

    Do not be shy with the shaft, it tops for orgasmic sensitivity when compared with the rest of their nether regions. Because the internal erectile tissues lie deep beneath the skin's surface gets activated soon. Most guys like the shaft handled pretty firmly, form a fist around it, moving up and down and adding pressure as you go. The head of the penis, or the glans, has significantly more nerves than the shaft, so just a delicate kiss will do wonders. During oral, run your tongue all over the glans and use some soft suction.

    How much is too much? – Nothing. Then ask for anything you want in return.

  • Get more experienced at being on top. Strengthen your legs so that you can actually be in a squatting position while going up and down rather than just sitting on him and grinding. You can even use your arms to support your thighs so u can stay in that position longer before ur legs give out.. its hard to explain but it makes it so the guy can see EVERYTHING and i know they love it cause i guess not many girls do it that way. So if u can get good at doing that then you'll have somethin to offer that not all girls do. Also, try the eye contact thing, it just adds intensity. I can't help putting my hands around his throat when im really getting into it, and it turns out most men actually really like that. Tell him outloud things that you want him to do to you.. like what postion to f*ck you in next, etc. They like hearing you say it. When you go down on a guy, if u dont already love doing it... act like you do. Act like u can't get enough of it, they love that shit haha, and i know it feels stupid sometimes but guys are greatly turned on by it when a girl gags on his dick and he can hear, feel, and see her gaging on it, so make yourself gag on it sometimes & i bet he will be insanley turned on. Be willing to try something new that u dont do often like anal or balls in ur mouth lol i dunno, this is startin to get graphic, but u get the idea! All those things will make sex more enjoyable & u will feel more "in it" and he won't soon forget it and will wanna do it again and again.

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  • You're kidding, right? What, you just get on this site and have never read all the blow by blow descriptions on how a woman can be more involved?

  • We need more women like you - The dead fish out there I mean still love them but they're dead fish

  • The BEST overall answer I can provide is to commit to TOTALLY BEING "in-the-moment"
    and a quote by the 20th century science fantasy Robert Heinlein,
    from one of the intermissions in "Time Enough For Love":

    "A GENUINE Woman takes off her 'dignity' with her raiment and does her 'whorish best'...
    at all OTHER times, she can profess to be as 'proper' as her circumstances and public Persona may require."

  • When a guy is making love to a woman if he's doing it right there's no way she's going to just be laying there every part of her body is going to be moving becoming one if a girl is just laying there then the guy doesn't know what the fuck he's doing

  • I find if the woman under me can get involved, hold my arms or shoulders, or your legs back, hold your boobs for me to suck on if I can.
    Some verbal might be nice too, like too the left, or harder, or that feels nice.
    Yeah laying there would be boring. I dated a girl once who did just lay there. I tried to get her involved but it did not happen. Finally let her go.

  • Well, you can go "ooh, ahh" and fake a few orgasms.

  • I didn't have a problem with that but laying there being a fck toy and not doing anything is nice too

  • To be 'more involved", you have to enjoy what you are doing, or are having done to you. I have to say, that I have failed, on many occasions to be as attentive to my partner as I should have been. Not a good, solid answer, I know, but you need to like it to be involved, and your partner has some obligation to 'involve' you.

  • There is no such list of requirements for women during sex. You do whatever you like that your partner consents to. Whatever turns you on and makes you happy. If that involves lying back, closing your eyes, and thinking of England, then do that. If it means throwing your partner down, climbing on top of them, and riding them like a unbroken stallion, then do that. Don't think about what you're supposed to do. Think about what you want to do.

  • At least ACT like you like it.

  • Take control be on top. Touch, use your nails gently, move your hips and try different positions. On top you have more control over your own pleasure as well

  • to have it how she wants it, and not be afraid , to not hold back. if she wants it i want her to have it, no matter what it is , others, toys, trio etc no matter what she should feel confident to have it the way she likes it

  • Be open to new ideas and offer up some yourself.

  • Take control. Be. on top of him and try to over power him. Control the pace with some dirty talk and tell him what to do. Be a little aggressive and assertive.

  • First off know your own body. What turns you on. Masterbate and make cum. Get a mirror and look at you body. Does your own body turn you on. If you can't turn yourself on and make yourself orgasm, it will be hard for anyone your with to make you climax. Not impossible but hard. Be comfortable and confident. If he's doing something wrong or something you don't like, let him know. Show him what you like. Be vocal, when he sucking your nips tell him how much you like it. Tell him to stroke himself while you watch. Lots of foreplay before fucking. Don't be afraid to talk naughty and dirty.

  • enthusiasm goes a long way

  • There is some really good advice here, you should take it. I have "lots" of experience.

    If a man receives the signal that you are liking his moves his confidence goes up and everything will go better.

    I like verbal women, like:
    I wanna "fill in blank"
    "blank" me, etc.

    playing with yourself is always hot and also reassures the man your probably going to be successful helping yourself to cum and removes pressure from him to perform well which usually means he performs his best.

    Most men want to hear that your interested in their cum, especially if its on your face or in your tummy. I can't explain why, but never met a man who's not into this.

    hope this helps

  • There is something to be said about enthusiasm

  • Dirty talk give it back toys be sub or dom

  • Start doing oral and after that get on your hands and knees, doggystyle :)

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