What do you think makes someone a pervert?

This is important to identify a healthy sexuality and sex life.
Versus the devious things...
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  • Its quute difficult to define as people will all have their own line as to where actions go from say a kink to a perversion.

    It will also depend on culture and societies views in that area and also time frame. Things that are considered perverse in one country might be totally nornal in another.

    The same goes for time period, there are many things that are totally nornal these days that would have been considered totally perverted 60-70 years ago, and who know what will be acceptable in 50 years time. Years ago in most countries gay people were considered as perverts, but now it is considered to be acceptable by most, yet some still consider it a perversion. I'd say in general though it is a person who repeatedly crosses a line of acceptability in sexual actions that their society and tine period consider normal. Also someone who deliberately ignores and dismisses consent of others.

    • Thank you for this comment. It is interesting. And I think in all honesty its probably the Internet that helped or diversified perceptions...

    • Yes very true, it has allowed different kinds of people to connect that normally wouldn't have had the chance. Sadly it also gives the perverts a playground 😳

    • Precisely someone made a comment here and I gulped. Guilty! But I put have thought if it as being a perversion and only shared with one person. Who didn't react well. What was more weird he enjoyed visiting sex stores looking at various dvds on offer I think in Amsterdam

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  • Yeah it's kind of a word we toss around too much. Like people will call you a pervert for being distracted by boobs something. LIke... that's the exact opposite of a perversion and completely normal.

    Honestly I'm not sure where I would consider something a perversion though. If it involves people who don't know what you're doing, don't consent, or can't legally consent, then that's clearly a perversion.

    • It's something to think about

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  • I would say it's someone who is always thinking and talking about sex.

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  • Social Point of View:
    Read the Laws. Anyone who breaks and liable for prosecution is a pervert.

    Individuals POV:
    Read their upbringing and beliefs. Anyone getting shun or liable for a slap is a pervert.

    Me:
    Read my Profile and Opinions. Anyone "less" than me is not a pervert. Congratulations to all G@Gers! LOL!

  • I guess it’s when you take something beyond the normal when it comes to sex.
    this is probably different for everyone.
    what I think is acceptable may be unacceptable to you and vice versa, so it’s a really hard thing to judge, it’s very subjective

  • I don't really use that word anymore when it comes to kinks/fetishes.

    I would say that anything illegal or not consensual would be "perverted".

    • Well that's a good way to look at it. It's interesting though, not very many here have wanted to really define what they consider to be a perversion so to me that sort of makes me think they may engage in things they think or know to be less than acceptable. Also a kink is a kink and in my opinion would only be considered a perversion if they're taking it out and into the public arena without consent. My sex life and desires are pretty vanilla so in my opinion I consider a lot to be a perverse. Does that make sense. But I know there are things I do and think about that another may think that's weird! Or maybe go as far as to say creepy, so they stay in my head!

    • I like a lot of the things you said. * I think most people on here are worried that others will think they kinks are perverted based on their own opinion of stuff. And are afraid to be judged. * I see your point about the "out into the public... without consent". While some people might find it hot to go camping and have sex under the night sky, someone else would think that it's sex in public and that it's then considered perverted. * Do you consider things to be perverted just because you don't want to do it, or because of the act in general regardless of if others are the ones doing it? * I would never EVER dream of telling someone that their own personal "kinks/thoughts" are perverted. If they shared it with me, I would accept it as something that they do, but simply tell them that I don't much care for it. But in the end, no judgements from me.

    • I'm happy to continue this conversation privately to prevent any offense. Although this is an open and non judgmental space I know some won't be so kind

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  • to me, is someone that imposes or exposes their "whatever you're into" onto others...

    for example, unsolicited sexual comments and or pics and stuff like that

    being a creep, basically... that's perverted to me

    to me, this is the abnormal and unacceptable sexual behaviour

  • Pervert is just a word some people use for other people that enjoy activities they don’t like. I just laugh and think “Whatever. You’re missing out.”

  • Pervert is like slut. Depends what you mean by pervert?
    Do you mean someone who is into nasty stuff that will or should send them to prison.
    Or someone who just has a lot of dirty thoughts.
    But that it's self just explained either one for me. So that.

  • I'm a pervert. I'd try to look down your shirt if your bent over. I'd try to see up your skirt if you crossing and uncrossing your legs. I would never do anything illegal to be perverted. I just take advantage of opportunities given

    • Do you think others don't do that?

    • I think they do. I'm just saying that I consider myself a pervert for trying to see the things that I'm not supposed to be seeing

    • Who doesn't look at boobs?

  • Grown males who are adults and they fall for these underage girls have issues
    there was a woman much older than her boyfriend he was age 24 and several
    times her 14-year-old daughter and that boyfriend would be caught together
    and just recently the boyfriend got arrested he was caught at the hotel with
    the daughter came to the hotel door all naked no clothes on well they weren't
    playing cards but here is an example of perverts and it makes you wonder why
    these things happen and the girl ran away to be with him?

  • I'm definitely a muthafunkin perv !

  • Are you kink shaming?

    • What's that exactly?

    • what do you mean by devious things?

    • The kind of things that will get you arrested

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  • Everyone has their own definition. Personally, I guess I would reserve the word pervert for someone that's into something illegal.

  • Pervert is going out of their way to do illegal things to get off.

  • Sexual abuse plays a big role in this.

  • It starts by how you’re raised, for the most part. Some are just born that way and are able to still pull back. Others don’t and give in to their devious satisfactions.

  • Social expectations and laws

  • staring at men/women privates when talking to each other, trying to peek at someone's privates

  • A pervert is some one can't keep his hands off kids

    Like Joe Biden

    • I have never heard anyone file a complaint against Biden.

    • They been many but the Democrats cover for him Look it up little girls Joe Biden groped

  • Sexuality is a "Broad Spectrum" who gets to make the Rules?

  • Everyone will have a someone different opinion on this.

  • Depends on what that person calls perverted. It's very subjective

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