What do you think of femdom?

I'm a girl with kinky, maybe disgusting fetishes and I always wanted to perfom them but I am scared I will scare my partners away, I'm into femdom, I like to be the dominant one but i'm NOT into s&m. I like pegging, I like assplay in general and I love submissive guys that will do what i want no matter what. I also like ''golden showers'', google the words you don't get. Anyway are there any guys who like that kind of thing? I'm not even satisfied with normal sex anymore and am I even normal anymore?
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  • I love femdom as much as you. I dream of cumming from being pegged while caged in chastity

    So since your post is 1y old. How dod things go

  • I like everything you mentioned except the golden shower. I'm also into orgasm control.
    Also I'm pretty sure there are a lot of kinky guys (like me), you just need to find one.

  • So you like to piss on guys and fuck them in the ass with a strap-on?

    • yeah

    • Have you done it before?

    • I wanted to but no I haven't I just know that I'm into these kind of things

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  • Yes I love you. Will you marry me

    • Ass play yes please

    • uhm you're married?

    • Lol you just got me so excited I always ask my wife to give me a golden shower but she never wants to

  • If I trusted a girl I might enjoy it with her

  • yes its normal, enjoy it.

  • I am ur guy cuz I'm into that type of kinky SEX myself but I don't have anyone to that towards me.

  • Many guys will like it you just need the matching partner. I like femdom also and you have to find out Wich games you like what you handle and what maybe is the punishment for disobey you miss.

  • wow that's real hot. I am totally into girls who are into it. do you like ballbusting or castra play too?

  • Y3s i lovr it all

  • In my opinion, I don't get a choice as to what I'm into. If i was ordered to do something i would do it, no matter what.

  • You're my kinda girl. Most of my girlfriends were pretty vanilla, but one did some light anal play with me, and the more things I tried, the more I liked.

    A lot of guys have some serious kinks, but I think most are afraid to admit it usually because of gender roles and societal norms.

    You'll never know if you'll like something until you try it.

  • some man would like it. some won't. me personally have never done this, but you perfectly dscribe my fantasies. i'm very very submissive. so yeah it would turn me on. pain and torture is nothing for me. but to obey someone and some assplay. hell yeah !

  • You should have no problem. there are many men who are into femdom and seemingly far fewer women.

  • Lots of guys are into this. I am as well but it's a matter of finding a person who is. There's no normal anymore lol

  • There are tons of guys who are into being submissive! Myself for one, and a lot of the people I know. You'll find someone!

  • All I want is to please women, femdom is my favorite thing to follow because I believe when having sex your partner is what matters, not only that allowing a woman to control you gives them the freedom to be as kinky as they want and you can start to learn what she likes more. However I would only do it if she forces md

  • Yes I want to be slave of women.

  • I'm on the same page with you on this. Iv brought up the same things you mentioned with several ladys I thought might fit the type that would participate. No luck in finding my better half yet.

  • I'm not sure how old this question is but I'll add my perspective. I'd love feedback if you'll indulge and are still around. First, I don't think what you want is disgusting. I think the market available to you might be smaller given your interests though. I have a similar challenge but in reverse. How do I find women into dominating men without all the risk of revealing my interests?

    I've had submissive energy from very early on even though you'd never know it by meeting me. Finding women that enjoy being in control, enjoy inducing submissiveness in their men, and take pleasure in delivering humiliation or degradation is very challenging.

    I don't want the world to know what I'm into as it creates a very real risk in my everyday life. I tend to view it as bedroom only. I like equality outside the bedroom. I prefer a safe, sane, and consensual style where everything is largely negotiated and safety is paramount. The problem is how do I identify what I'm into to potential partners to find a match, without taking the big risk? It also seems very few women are actually into having their way with a man in a style that is complimentary to my own.

    For what it's worth, taking your list and expanding on it a bit, things that turn me on include being pinned, submitted, smothered, consensual non-consent, golden showers, forced oral after sex, plenty of non-reciprocal oral, etc. There's also something about other women watching someone do all these things to me that turns it up another notch.

    Anyhow, good luck in your search!

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