What’s so bad with being a hoe?

I’m 23 and I lost my virginity when I was 16, I have a high sex drive and I slept with a dozen of men and a dozen of women, had MMF, FFF and FFM threesomes, but I’m careful to not get pregnant or catch an STD, and I also have a sugar daddy, but I don’t get why are girls like me demonized so much for loving sex and enjoying it with different people as long as I and the person I am having sex with is a single consenting adult.

I go to college and I’m planning to become a nurse and to marry a guy when I’ll be in my mid to late twenties, I never cheated when I’m in a relationship, yet I notice that many guys seems to hate girls like me while they would fuck even more women if they could get sex as easily as I do.

Plus this whole thing about promiscuous women not being desirable is a cope, I have two cousins that were total sluts when they were my age and they are now married with desirable wealthy men that cherish them, and they seem to have a healthy relationship.
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  • Well that's because you have already slept with someone other than your husband or boyfriend. The same goes for man too. Even if you are not married yet but you are still going to get married one day. Now when you get married and you make a list that with how many people you had sex. Then you will obviously find people other than your husband which is kinda like you cheated on him. Sex is a pure thing. It's not what you d with everyone. It's good if you lose your virginity to your husband or wife (for males).

  • There's nothing bad with who you are, the idea that your place in society is to wait until you're the property of one man forever is bad.

  • If you really feel there is nothing wrong with being promiscuous then why remain anonymous?

    • BOOM! hit the nail on the head

  • A sugar daddy only slut thing you did. sluts are only sluts if they fuck reason besides pleasure. I like girls more then 10 bodys they fuck better dont get sore. The fact you had MMF 3some turnoff too cause that gay.

  • It's the bragging attitude. People judge based on character. People also become jealous.

    Just like everything that is exclusive, there is a reasonable argument that all exclusive things are on some level unethical.

    • That said, you all know sex isn't that great, not great enough to justify dozens of bodies. So it also comes off as over compensating for something and/or being insecure in some way. Which, actually, replaces jealousy with cringe or at least curiosity.

  • Wow, there's some judgmental arses here.

    OP, go and have fin and enjoy yourself.

    • Your family looks very warm and nice

    • She asked a question and people are answering it. Just because you don't like what others say, doesn't mean they are "judgmental arses". Studies have proven that leading such lifestyle holds bad consequences in the future (see my post on this question). So telling her to "go have fun" is paving the road to hell with good intentions.

  • Hell I was the same way. When I was young like you. I did all the same shit.

    But for some stupid reason. When guys do it they are a stud. Girls are bimbos and sluts for the same them.

    Fuck them negative motherfers. They are most likely jealous because they are not getting laid

  • You sound fun!😀

  • It’s not really a hoax. Anything loses its value when it’s been used and abused with high mileage. Your anecdotal story doesn’t render that bull. Ever heard of the water diamond paradox? No man wants to imagine the woman he loves being dicked down by randoms. Pretty much comes down to that.

    Statistically, promiscuous women have a marginally higher rate of mental illness, and they also have a marginally higher rate to commit infidelity within marriage. Also have a marginally higher chance of divorce. Men typically don’t have the same outcomes. A lot of biological reasons as to why.

    I was promiscuous in my college years. Started making money after, and then came up on even more money. Part of that transition was an entire class shift within my network. This kind of behavior is just trashy and unattractive as an adult. I know some loan officers with money like this, and they have money- but live paycheck to paycheck. I couldn’t imagine a scenario of a wealthy man with options deliberately choosing a massive slut with a high statistical chance of failure, over a normal attractive high class woman. Truly don’t see the reasoning as to why.

    I don’t mind a girls past as much given that it’s her past. I wouldn’t date anyone who still lives that lifestyle. It’s unattractive at this point in my life.

  • I have trust issues and some insecurity, but who doesn't? I think if a guy wants someone with a high sex drive that should be fine.
    It's unrealistic for a guy to expect a woman to want sex all the time yet wait their entire life before meeting them to have sex.
    As long as the trust and genuine care is there I dont think there should be any problem.

    Good for you by the way dude, enjoy yourself

  • As long as you're being safe and not hurting anyone who cares what others think

  • I personally don't mind women wanting to have lots of sex, or whether or not they've had a lot of different partners. It's more the personality and attitude towards life, people and relationships that those types of people typically has (from my experience) that I disagree with.

  • Nothing wrong with being a hoe. It's more like a service to men haha. I have a couple girl friends that have literally fucked everyone in my friend group.(we have a huge group) Nothing wrong with it, just that guys won't take you as seriously if you want something serious and they know your background

    • Why is it okay when men do that? That’s sexist

    • Society but it works both ways. As a man we have to go through a lot that would be considered unfair as well. All the approaching, paying for dates, chivalry, fully supporting some gfs. Also girls can flaunt their breasts. If men could flaunt our shafts I'd get way more attention lmao 😂😆

  • the title ruins your face, it makes men see you as an object instead of seen as someone that deserves respect, it makes you look easy and well as you can tell, it doesn't help

  • Mot a damn thing is wrong with being a hoe. In fact, anymore I prefer hoes because they are at least honest about who they are... unlike girlfriends.

  • Nothing, I like girls with high sex drives and who aren't afraid to exxpress their own sexual wants and needs

  • Because rational thinking men dont want women who have so little self respect.. And before you scream sexism. I feel the exact same way about men who behave as you do. I dont respect women who can't respect them selves and are essentially prostitutes (the sugar daddy part)

  • Yuuuuck...

    I think I contracted an STD just by reading your post.

    Be gone hoe...

  • I'll start from myself.
    I don't have sex with someone who i'm not committed to, and who i don't love.
    I did it once tho, and it just felt so empty. I'd rather find 1 person i truly love, and be with her, rather than fuck around with no emotions involved.
    I have nothing against people who fuck around, but i'd rather not have them in my friend circle.

  • who is you in these 5 girls in pic?

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