What’s the difference between making love and having sex?

Holding your hands, interwining fingers, making eye contact with you and smiling at you, kissing you, hugging you while having sex, calling you baby, telling you Oh god, you are so sexy. Asking you if you like it and feel good, saying It feels amazing to be inside you, kissing your forehead while having sex, cuddling afterwards, saying it feels so comfortable to cuddle with you, he doesn’t want to go. Is that making love?

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  • Holding hands : I do it in both.
    interwining fingers : Both.
    Smiling and Eye contact : Both but more during love making.
    Asking if she liked it : Sex yes, love making no.
    Saying it feels good inside her : Both.
    Kiss forehead : Both.
    After cuddle : Both.

    The differences for me?

    Foreplay?
    Sex : Will massage her neck and shoulders, some kisses on her lips, touch her all over her body to arouse, more concentration on her boobs, thighs and butt.
    ML : Massage her whole body, lot more kissing and the kisses will be longer, touching her all over while massaging rather than to arouse her, her boobs, butt and legs will get attention, foreplay will be much longer.

    Position?
    LM : She will only be placed in missionary.
    Sex : If she is very attractive or has big boobs, she will be done in missionary, if she is bigger sized, has big hips or big booty, then she would be placed in doggy.

    Inserting into her?
    LM : Will kiss her, ask if she is ready, then will adjust her legs, be on top of her, hug her tightly, kiss her, keep an arm under her back, move the other hand to be under the back of her head, kiss her again, if we had not previously had sex, I would whisper to her ears that she is beautiful, would begin teasing her, then apologise to her that mine is big and might hurt her. I will then hold her and slowly move mine into her, she will be kissed a few times if I notice it is hurting her especially as it goes deeper into her but I will not stop till it is fully inside her, I don't believe in love making without mine fully being inserted into her.

    Sex : If she is being done in missionary, she will be kissed once, then her boobs squeezed somewhat hard and I will be on top of her. then will place my hands by her hips, use my knees to prize open her legs further apart, I will then focus my eyes to her boobs, make a few tease thrusts which I will purposely not aim properly, then usually the 3rd or 4th thrust then I will enjoy the feel as she would no longer have the choice but to feel much of her vagina being forced to stretch and be filled by my manhood that I had pushed hard into her so she would feel dominated, owned and hurt.

    Thrusting?
    LM : Deep short thrusts mostly, lots of moves to stretch and fill her, will be slow to fast. Some moves will hurt her. During the entire will have lots of long kissees, some french kisses and lots of embracing.
    Sex : Deep, long and fast strokes from start to finish. Only after finished she will get a kiss.

    After it is over :

    LM : Cuddle will be longer.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's interesting watching motions pictures, listening to radio programs, and viewing works of fiction and popular culture from previous decades because "to make love" used to refer to simply courting, wooing, or just giving attentions to someone in a romantic manner. For someone who isn't aware of that, it can cause hilarity to ensue.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Making love can include sex, but it doesn't have to. Affectionate gestures such as kissing can be called making love as well. But it's also much more emotional & intimate. Having sex is just that-having sex. Might be pleasurable in the moment but that's it.

  • Making love is having sex with someone you love that also loves you. There's emotional connection and intimacy. Having sex without love is just a physical activity that brings physical pleasure.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • One is a euphemism, one is the plain truth.

    The former is generally only used by people who can't distinguish between sex and love. Pity them, if you wish, but for Pete's sake don't envy them.

  • To me the difference is passion.

    I always cuddle afterwards whether we making love or fuckin, but if I'm kissing, holding hands and looking deeply into her eyes we making love. If I'm going at it like there is no tomorrow and trying to knock the bottom off it we fuckin.

    For what it's worth, typically I let her decide which it is going to be by how she responds during foreplay.

  • No idea. Don't think iv ever "made love".

  • Yes, it is, making love is having sex in a loving, committed way.

  • I see having sex as an act of lust which means nothing more than fulfilling an urge! Making love however is art form to give complete pleasure to your partner not only to her body, but her mind also.

    • Time should always be made in life for both forms though!

    • What do you think of this scenario?

    • Yes. I would call that making love

  • One is powerful the other is so so.

  • Sex is sex.

  • If you do it with your partner's pleasure in mind, nothing. Neo proved that with Persephone. If necessary, he would have followed through.

  • Making love is exclusively the emotional bond. The sex is secondary. Sex is about equal parts physical and emotional. And fucking is animalistic little to no emotional and generally just degrading in the long run. "Casual sex" is fucking hence why so many women feel regret the next morning

  • It’s the same thing

  • u make love when u have feelings for the person u r doing it with meanwhile they also have feelings for u
    having sex is having sex

  • Anyone can have sex. Making love is on a whole other level.

  • Both are same in passionate way penetration we called make love😘

  • Emotional attachment

  • Making love is more passionate.

  • Making love has an emotional connection attached to it

  • Making love means you're having sex because you love the person

  • Probably the state of your relationship.

  • Gentle fucking and aggressive fucking are both still fucking. Call it what you want. The cum filling up your pussy doesn’t discriminate.

  • All of these things with you

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