What's your tip to rekindle passion in the relationship?

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AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Swap fantasies and then role play the hell out of the ones you both like.

Best Sex Ever!!
It was on a trip as well. We were on a road trip and on the way I asked her if she had any fantasies she'd not gotten to live out. She told me one was getting picked up in a bar by a stranger and done very roughly. We're quite kinky so the rough part was par for the course. Our scenario was that I was in town on business and her boyfriend had abandoned her for a night out with the guys and she went to the bar for revenge.

On the night, I put her in the shower first after telling her that I wanted her gone when I got out of the shower so her attire would be a surprise. Once I was ready, I made her wait for 25 minutes or so before I went down.

When I got there she was perched at the far end of a U-shaped bar. I looked around and there was a guy sitting alone at the curve in the bar. I joined him and while we were talking, this really pretty girl in a gorgeous dress came up and sat down beside him. They were friends in a wedding together and we all talked. Then she went back to her party.

While all this was going on, my partner gets up to go to the bathroom. She wasn't walking--she was strutting her stuff. She was in a tight shortish skirt, low cut top, and 4" black patent classic stiletto pumps. As she strutted by, every man in the place was watching her like cats and a canary. I absolutely loved it!! After she got back and was settled, I leaned over to my new friend and said, "I think I'm gonna go over and knock off a piece of that!" He laughed and wished me good luck.

I walked slowly over to the bar stool next to hers, asked her if it was taken, and sat down, studiously ignoring her for a little bit. I then turned and started a conversation. It's absolutely amazing what golden bullshit flows from one's mouth when picking up a girl where the outcome is predetermined. A few minutes into the conversation, up walks the girl in the gorgeous dress who sits down next to me and starts hitting on me like a drum. Almost simultaneously, a young Latino walked up to my partner and started hitting on her, hard. I'm sitting there trying to not choke on my beer watching her try to fend off the dude and while keeping an eye on me and the other girl. Eventually both gave up and I asked her if she'd like to go upstairs for some rough sex. She agreed and we headed, her strutting, for the door. I saw at least two guys get elbowed in the ribs by their dates for leering at my date. I winked at my new friend as we went by. He was agape that I'd succeeded having watched all that transpired.

I pushed open the door for her and, as she walked by, I gave her a very hard swat on the ass. She yelped and jumped and I think every guy in the bar laughed.

We were all over each other on the elevator ride up and when we got to the room, we couldn't get her naked fast enough. I'm a complete Dom and I yanked her over my knee and gave a very hot, hard, long bare bottom paddling for being such a slut. I then proceeded to thrash her soundly with the cane and, roughly throwing her over the sofa back, roughly and ruthlessly fucked her up the ass, dry. We went on to have the best sex of our lives.

As we're lying there in the afterglow, she begins to confess. It takes me a minute but then I figure it out: I'm now the cuckolded boyfriend. I react with righteous anger and she gets another hot and sexy beating and fucking. By then she was sore and was crying out which I absolutely loved. I came so hard I thought I was going to turn inside out.

How's that for great sex?

Iron_Man · Accepted Answer

Take her to Venice Italy go on the gondola ride I guarantee it'll make every woman in awe romantically I've experienced that before

petrichowu · Answer

Include what your partner loves and branch out from there, be very enthusiastic and vocal, and make sure that you're making each other feel good. Although you may be the one trying to rekindle passion, sex should please both parties.

8owen8 · Answer

They way people speak to each other is so important. When two people start being sarcastic and negative towards eachother, the end is/should be near. (Sadly/oddly many couples go on and bring the worst out of each other for a bit)

So if you want to rekindle the flame you have speak to each other with honesty, respect and as if they are your soulmate. Love will prevail if it is meant to be, right? : )

dmvgirl16 · Answer

My tip is like for example in terms of passion is making surprises like for example one night u basically well a night before u buy roses like little petals and u put it around the house and then some in the bed and u also put like a good smell on and u write little notes saying things like come or romantic things and like u hide in a closer until she reaches the bed and when she does u say surprise this is for u my love and im sure the first thing she will do is hug u and kiss u and then the pasion will happen and in terms of relationship wise u can cook her favorite food like while she is sleeping and then in the morning for breakfast u bring in it to her in bed and after u can cook her favorite lunch and u can serve it to her or simple u can buy a teddy bear or flowers or even kiss her and hug her

xkildy · Answer

Honestly just spend time together doing things that you have. It done in a long time.. dont complain don't fuss and don't get upset and yell..

Lost_Spark · Answer

Be open minded to new possibilities, push the boat out a little and try different things. Either you or your partner may have a specific itch to scratch. Listen and discuss, it doesn't mean it has to be done but that freedom of knowing.

Be more tactile and flirtatious in how you are around each other.

Chikky · Answer

By communicating more often than usual, send a joke to your spouse and make them tear up a bit

creambutter656 · Answer

Start with seeing some erotic tv shows or start reading some magazine with sexy pics.

dominant_gal · Answer

lingerie and bondage

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Add the occasional 3rd party. The fun never ends :)

candace32 · Answer

Lingerie and foreplay ;)

Phoenix98 · Answer

Well communication helps a lot in regards to communicating that desire to your partner as well as making plans to rekindle it like going out on dates having a night just the two of you and nothing else.

Reminding each other of why your together in the first place, being flirty, playful and teasing each other, stuff like that.

Massageman · Answer

Give her the love and trust first, then you will get the sex.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Hope that the female realizes she needs to lose weight.

jb12358 · Answer

Pick out a couple of toys together

CrazyRay43 · Answer

Break up, start a new relationship

QueenOfBaku · Answer

Games

Trooper205 · Answer

The Fires of Passion can only be reignited once the Spark of Romance and Love are stoked.
Romance and Love can be easily sparked with Kind Gestures, Self-Denial, Openness, Time Spent, Sacrifice, and many other things!

bloodys2 · Answer

Do the things you show in those pictures. Seriously.

jhnny1331 · Answer

Mix things up try different locations go to an adult bookstore together by a toy what to do in a movie together roleplay everything that you feel do you like to try that you've never ask your partner to do in the past I mean aside from the barnyard animals and multiple partners involved try to live out each other's fantasies and I never recommend a threesome ever it does not turn out well.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I would imagine starting over and getting to know each other would be the way.

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