Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Speak for yourself personally when answering the question... but yea, I feel like people consider you vanilla if you’re not into a lot of taboo and fetishes. So whats something that you’re into but if they weren’t into it, you’d consider them vanilla— For example, anal, oral, threesomes, etc— by the way, Do you consider yourself vanilla?
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What sexual things would someone have to NOT be into (that you’re into) for you to consider them “vanilla”?
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16 44I'm a pretty "vanilla" kind of guy, so I don't have many kinks.
Nothing wrong wih that
Exhibitionism... having fun in public is my favorite ;)
Yesss
Oral sex, cowgirl, rape play, role play
Not being into rape play makes someone vanilla? Well thats most of the world cause thats jus sick
Not if she had a traumatic experience of course. And usually it's just kinda a light BDSM. So I am not sure that you can speak for entire world :)
I’ll just speak for the sane people
Sanity is a vague term, different people have their own opinion on what it is
Oral. I also had those girls who just lay there. Like. Come on, I am not the only one in this. Lol
If they just lay there, roll em over and put her on top. If she doesn't make a move, then kick her out lmao
Oh I, have done that. And I have said you have to go. Lol
Someone who wasn't into oral I would consider to be Really vanilla!
Yea haha
i am not fully sure how to respond to this but i am extreamly open to learn new things
Yea im not
Anal
Yea i ain't bout dat life
Did u try Anal?
Not by choice
Well the one thing that I’m into that no other woman is into is that I really watch my girlfriend or wife fuck other men.
Damn
Is that bad?
To me
Yikes lol so you think it’s bad? And something you would never do?
I like for people to watch me and him but not watch him with others. Tf
Haha no that’s what I want is to watch her but I don’t wanna do stuff with other women. I would just love to watch her and them.
Yea thats horrible
Why is that so bad for everyone and why does everyone hate this?
You do as u please but its not right. She looks like she's being pimped out, you look dumb and the other guy is silly but sees it as free pussy
Well we both talked about it now for over a year now and she said she doesn’t see it as that and sees it more as experimenting and trying new things and she’s not mad at me for asking.
Course she ain't mad. she's cheatin for free
Haha it’s not cheating if I’m there lol but she has never cheated on me before this anyway.
Its cheating with permission
I don’t think so if I am present then it’s not lol.
I agree with you baseball. Also it isn't cheating if its consensual. If people enjoy it together who are you to judge.
@7Roses im me and i judged him. So it is what it is. Accept it and move on. And its still cheating. Its just with permission like i said
@7Roses thank you it’s not cheating if they agree
Anal, threesomes, not a lot of positions
So theyre vanilla if theyre not into anal and threesomes. Lmao ok
Most guys who want a threesome are too self absorbed to pleasure the women so instead of being a man you make the women take care of themselves.
I generally don't view anyone as vanilla but for argument's sake I'd have to say anal
So you do like anal then lol
Guilty lol
Sub/dom role-play, watersports (giving), and/or exhibitionism. Im into kinkier but, I think those meet the criteria.
Lmao watersports or just straight up being an rkelly 🤣
No RKelly here!!! She gotta be OF age!!
😂😂😂😂
Rope, spanking, whip, floggers, cuffs, paddles, tape, candles, latex, leather, plugs, restraints, dildos, vibrators, ... :-)
Well i def ain't into sex toys
I don't like shit or men that's about it really maybe
Lmao im crackin up 🤣
So it's not vanilla lol
No thats normal
What do you mean by vanilla?
Vanilla is what we’re called for not liking those things
So it means gay or the females only turned on by men on men?
Oh no. Vanilla is just people not into experimenting and exploring not normal things
I'm no vanilla then that is for sure 🤣
I don't think it's accurate to call a woman vanilla just because she is not into a specific act. Great sex is not about a particular act; it's more about how into it she is, her attitude, her passion.
But there are certain things that I enjoy and would be deal breakers for me if she didn't enjoy them too. My fiancee and I are both into oral and anal, and I don't think I would ever be happy with someone who wasn't.
So that would make em vanilla to you then lol
No, it wouldn't. Did you not even read the first paragraph? There is a significant difference between vanilla and incompatible.
Maybe I’m crazy but I prefer vanilla
Girl a lot of us do
People call me vanilla. If they ain't into teasing, lots of foreplay, little bites and scratches imma be bored.
Hahaha
I'm open to positions, food, alcohol, cuff, blindfold, light choking, nibbles, toys, spankings, candles.
I hated spankings as a kid so i just can't find those hot haha
Good point 😂
I don't consider myself vanilla at all but I am not "wild" with wanting threesomes, bondage, cosplay, etc. I am into giving and receiving anal play and I like anal sex but it's something I can live without. If someone is not even into oral sex, then I would consider them to be very vanilla.
Yea took a long while before i was into oral
Exhibitionism.
Lol i know thats right
It's pretty mild, so I think you'd have to be pretty vanilla to to be willing to do it.
Wait you think exhibitionism is vanilla? Lmao nahh
No, I messed up. I meant NOT willing to do it would be vanilla.
Ohhh okay ahhaha
100% agree